Everyone seems to always be talking about relationship goals, and how every girl wants to find their best friend in whoever they are dating. But once they find that person and have that relationship everyone strives for, they're judged for it. As the relationship continues, fights seem to break out in each partner with their friends. Some of the friends get tense when you pick others over them, even if it doesn’t happen all the time.
Yes, of course time is made for my friends just like he makes time for his. We seem to find a balance that works for us, and if that doesn’t work for you, well tough. If they are true friends, they won’t put themselves in that situation to have you chose them or your boyfriend. Friends act like the boyfriend you are with now won’t be with you forever, when in reality, we are getting to the age that our friends might leave us before our boyfriends do.
Boyfriends become our best friends and that is nothing to be ashamed of! Just because we want to hang out and talk to someone we love a lot doesn’t mean you have the right to get mad at us. He wants me to be the best version of myself, he wants to see me live my dreams.
I’m not saying sorry for picking my boyfriend over you, because if the roles were reversed you wouldn’t be sorry either.
