Family is the most important thing you have in this life -- don't ever take advantage of that, not even for a second. As the years have gone on, I've realized how fortunate I am for such an incredible support system especially because I am not naive enough anymore to believe everyone is as fortunate as I am.
My parents have given me everything I could've ever dreamed of, they've been so selfless just to make me happy. Between the countless hours spent driving and cheering me on at sporting events, in addition to working extra hours to make sure the holidays were always super special, my parents have given me the world. They've guided me along the ropes of life and have taught me right from wrong. With every defeat and hardship, they've been right by my side -- pushing me to succeed regardless of the circumstances.
As a kid, I used to love spending time with my parents. Whether it was drinking coffee out on the porch, making pottery in the basement, or soaking up rays on the boat, I remember feeling eternal happiness. My dad was one of my best friends and my mom was my favorite person to hang out with.
As I began to stumble upon my teenage years, my relationship with my parents began to change. I would always choose hanging out with my friends over them, and I began blowing off our little traditions. They embarrassed me because of how strict and protective they were, and I began resenting them for it. I would get into fights with them constantly because they wouldn't allow me to run around doing whatever I wanted -- and looking back on it now, I realize they were just trying to help steer me in the right direction. I allowed my attitude to get the best of me, and as a result, it caused unnecessary conflict between me and the people I love most in this world.
Ever since I started college, I truly noticed how much I take advantage of how wonderful and loving the two people who gave life to me are. They didn't have to try bonding with me constantly, or doing things they know made me smile -- they did those things because they love me and wanted to give me the best life I could have. Finally after years of thinking they were crazy just because they were trying to protect me from all of the evil in this world, I began to whole heartedly appreciate all of the little things my parents do for me. Nothing makes me happier than knowing I'm their baby girl, I wish I could give back to them for everything they've given up for me.
Since the beginning of my time, and for as long as my parents live, I know that they will give anything to make sure I accomplish all of my hopes and my dreams. I know that they will be by my side through everything no matter how big or small it may be. They are the reason I am so motivated to accomplish incredible things throughout my life, and find all of the beauty scattered across the world. They give me so much life, and no matter how close or far away I am from them, I will always cherish and hold my relationship with my parents close to my heart. Don't take advantage of the precious time you have to spend with your parents, some people don't get the same opportunity.
