To The Parent Who Was Never Asked To Be One
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To The Parent Who Was Never Asked To Be One

You took responsibility even when you were not asked to

Morgan O'Neill
Oct 17, 2016
University of Pennsylvania
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To The Parent Who Was Never Asked To Be One
Morgan O'Neill

Where do I begin?

You've been in my life for 17 1/2- 18 years. I have no idea how to even begin thanking you for everything you do. You stepped up to the plate of parenting me and providing me a positive life. Along with guiding me in the right direction, which is something you were never asked to do, to take the reigns and steer me in any direction at all.

I was your spouse's kid, and you raised me like I was your own daughter.

You've told me on numerous occasions-

"Brush your hair."

"Brush your teeth."

"Just love YOURSELF."

You've pushed me to become a better person for MYSELF.

You gave me an outlet to learn to express myself and open up feeling safe.

The bond we share is priceless and irreplaceable. You've taught me so many things and have inspired me to do so much- even now, about how to keep pushing forward. I don't know what I would do without you.

Even with everything we have endured, I wouldn't trade it for anything. I love you so much and wanted you to know that you're an amazing person. I've always wanted to feel accepted for who I was, and no matter what I've gone through, you've always welcomed me with open arms.

I'm so appreciative to have you in my life and for every single thing you do.

I know it's not all about the materialistic things, but I think you deserve it too. You work your ass off. You're driven and have such a positive ambiance, I wouldn't want any one else to look up to.

I love our Zumba jam sessions too. I could get one look from you and end up being happier than I already was. We have so many memories together and we tend to make more and more of them everyday.

I just wanted you to know that I love you so much, and I am so happy to have you in my life.

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