Hey Daddie-O,

I know this is something you’re not expecting and I know you’re either going to joke about how you’re famous now or, hopefully, getting teary eyed. I just felt like I should say a few things, and as you know, writing is the best way I can express myself.

Over the years you watched as boys broke your little girl’s heart, either intentionally or not. I know it wasn’t easy for you to sit back and be passive. But you honored my wishes. For me to be independent and do things for myself. I appreciate that. You know how stubborn and independent I can be, and that I get it from Mom. As I am getting older, and just wrapped up my first year of college. I know you’re wondering when I will find a good and honest boy to bring home. And as bridal and baby shower season is upon us, you watch as I look in awe at how perfect some people’s lives seem.

I am forever grateful that we have had such a great relationship where I can come to you with issues and you will always accept them with open arms. I have watched as you have raised three amazing children, and I have watched to see what a real man and father looks like. And beyond contrary belief; I listened to you.

I was listening. I listen when you tell my mom that you love her. I was listening when she said it back, even after spilling coffee on her. I was listening when you told me how much I am worth, and no boy should ever make me feel any less. I was listening when you held me while I cried. I was listening when you took care of me while I was sick. I was listening when you told the young man standing in our doorway, that I was the most precious thing in your life. But most of all I was listening when you told me that you loved me. Because through all of these things, I knew that you would always be on my side

I know I make stupid decisions that make you wonder if I was really listening at all. But I was. And this is not some sappy I love you letter, this is a letter to let you know, I know I am worth it. I hope one day, I will find half the love you and mom have. And one day, I hope to marry a guy who treats me as good as you treat mom and us. You have been such a huge blessing and I am lucky to be part of you. Even if the dad jokes annoy my friends a little too much.

Just know, I will wait for that right guy to walk into my life. Who can shake your hand while looking you in the eye. But until then, be patient with me. I will continue to bring undeserving men into my life as I figure out who I truly am. Thank you for setting such a high standard for any man who walks into my life. And one day, will be your son-in-law. Hopefully one who loves football and fishing as much as you.

I love you Dad,

Thank you for all the support and love throughout the years.

Your grateful daughter