The worst part of a break-up is having to separate yourself from the entire situation. Not only do you lose a partner, but you lose their friends, family and especially their cute animals. The hardest part of my most recent break-up has been not being able to spend time with people who were like family to me. Throughout the course of our relationship, my former love's mother became one of the people I look up to most. I will always cherish the memories, and there are some things I should thank her for.
Thank you for accepting me as one of your own.
It's always scary to meet someone's family for the first time, but you made it so easy. You took me in with open arms and loved me unconditionally from the beginning. You always told people I might as well be your daughter. You sure made me feel like one. I will never forget all of the good times. I knew from the beginning that I fit right in. Thank you for endless dinners, movie nights and mini trips.
Thank you for your support, encouragement and guidance.
Your kind words pushed me through this past semester. You always let me pull all-nighters studying in your kitchen. I know I have someone backing me up no matter what. You let me know how proud you were. You taught me to love myself first. Because of you, I see what a good mother is. If I have sons, I will treat their girlfriends the same way you treated me. Throughout this sadness you have let me know that it's okay to move forward. You've kept me strong.
Thank you for shaping me into a better woman.
I was lost when I first walked in your door, now I am found. Thank you for introducing me to people I will never forget. I have re-discovered my love of painting because of you. I have sought out new hobbies. I have learned to be more curious, open-minded and creative. All of the experiences I had with your family pushed me to grow as a person. Everything happens for a reason.
Last, but not least, thank you for letting me love your son.
I know it can't be easy to share your baby, but I hope I made it easier for you. Thank you for letting me take up so much of his time. You allowed us to create so many memories that wouldn't have happened otherwise. You let us stay up all night playing "Grand Theft Auto," despite the language, just because we were having a blast. Thank you for raising such a good man. He is full of love, kindness and courage. I know he will be successful at whatever he sets out to do because you are his mother. I will always cherish him.
Thank you for everything.
I am forever changed and forever grateful for you and your family. I love you. I hope to see you soon.
