Hey- ya I know, October-December of senior year is insanely stressful. Been there, done that.
Everything is piling on top of another. "Are you still taking the ACT/SAT? Have you gotten your first acceptance letter yet? What about to your number one? Scholarships? Do you have a significant other? Are you guys going to stay together? Have you studied for finals? How's senioritis?" seems to be ringing through your head 24/7. This makes it hard to enjoy the little things and if there's one thing I wish I had done in my senior year of high school, is appreciate the mini feel good moments that happen through out the day.
A friend compliments your new or even old shoes? It seems minor, but think about how you may not see that friend for a very long time in 2017 or not even at all past August. It's scary to think about, but it is also extremely possible. As stupid and unproductive as it sounds at this time in life, take a step back, look around, and be thankful.
Enjoy lunch during the school days at your specific table with all your friends. Have sleep overs! Make smart decisions, but live a little. Hug your mom and dad and tell them you love them in person. Hang out with your siblings. Take your dog on a walk and pet your cat, it's unreal how much you'll miss them. Trust that all good things come with time and understand that you've put out your best, your personal essay was bomb, you had stellar extra circulars for that God awful Common Application, and now you must wait patiently. Rejoice with your friends and support their achievements, but don't forget to celebrate your own.
Before you know it, May will be here and you will walk across that stage, cap and gown (or in my case long white dress and gloves) and accept your diploma. Be proud in everything you do, stay in contact with friends, and be your best self. You will do amazing things in college, but don't rush to get there just quite yet. Take it on day by day.
Looking back, I noticed myself constantly looking to college. I wanted nothing more than to finally be on my "own." No curfew, no parents telling me what to do or any adults for that matter. And yes, while I did end up slightly getting that (let's face it, you still do need your mom and dad freshman year) and it was and still is oh so rewarding, I wish I hadn't been so eager for it. Now that I have it, it's not that I don't want it, it's that I wish I had cherished those final days of high school a little bit more.
So take this advice and do with it what you will. Either way you are off to great places and on your way. You will succeed and you will do amazing things. Good luck!
Best,
Georgia (College Freshman)
