Dear Single Females,
This letter is to a single girl who has never been in a relationship before, and I mean real relationship, not one of those middle school three week things. It's hard growing up watching your friends get into relationships and hoping one day you'll have something like they do. It's even harder when you have a crush and it just doesn't seem to go anywhere. But then you tell yourself "I don't need a man to be happy" (which is in all honesty the truth). Eventually it's only natural for you to want something more than just a fling or going out every night hoping it'll lead you to the one.
Wanting a stable and real relationship with another person is human nature, and wanting to experience love is a beauty feeling. My advice is don't rush time, rather cherish every second. You are meant to follow a path and maybe your path isn't suppose to have a boyfriend/girlfriend right now. And that's okay! If you rush this process you're going to end up settling because, well, you feel lonely. If you settle you'll never be with your true love.
It's okay to date around, it doesn't make you a slut! Just make sure when you're dating it's someone you care for and have many aspects in common with. Know your worth! If you don't see your time together furthering with that person, tell them and tell yourself. I think often times women are so desparte to be with someone we don't realize we deserve better than who we are dating. So find someone who treats you right.
Finally take this time not to search for a hot partner, take time to find yourself and who you are, what you believe in.
If you take anything away from this, take away this: just let love happen; don't search for it, let it find you!
