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Open Letter To the Girl Going Through A Breakup

It's going to be okay.

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Open Letter To the Girl Going Through A Breakup
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If you are anything like me, you know that breakups are hard. As someone who takes everything to heart, when a breakup happens to me, I am a wreck, and not just for a few hours or a day. It takes a huge toll on me. The feeling is just horrible, but while it may seem like the end of the world right now, I promise you, it isn't.

I know that when you get broken up with, you automatically are hurt. You feel like you aren't worthy of anyone, and you just feel lonely and heartbroken. You have severe emotional and even physical pain, and you just don't know what to do. Well, let me tell you, it does hurt, and you will feel hurt for awhile, regardless of whether you want to or not, or how much you try to forget the whole situation. There's nothing wrong with crying for awhile and letting your feelings out. You will feel better afterwards. Don't be ashamed. Don't let this get the best of you though, do something to keep your mind occupied so you won't think about it. Don't just sit in bed and feel sorry for yourself. Don't let him know think that he has gotten the best of you, let him know that you are a strong woman and do not need him or any man to be happy. Live your life and don't let one person bring you down.

So, while this time may be hard for you, trust me, it's not the end of the world, it's going to be okay. So go ahead, cry all you need to, eat all the ice cream you want, do whatever it takes you help yourself feel better during this rough time. Lean on your friends and family for support, and don't let one person get the best of you. No man is worth your tears, and when you find the man who is, he'll never make you cry.

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