Dear future husband,

As I am writing this, we haven't met yet. I have no idea who you are, or who you could be. Maybe I've already met you; maybe not. But someday, somehow, we will meet, and our lives together will begin. It doesn't have to be romantic at first; who knows, maybe we get off on the wrong foot and have to learn to like each other, let alone love each other. But, one thing will lead to another, and then the future dishes out what it has in store for us, whatever that may be.

I want to thank you for being there for me. I know I'm a difficult person at times, to say the least. I have my moments where I'm completely relaxed and chill about things, and then I have my moments where the slightest thing going wrong will upset me, but hey, we all have those days. Your support means a lot to me, and it's one thing I'll never take for granted.

I want you to know that you're never going to be alone. When things get rough for you, I'll be your rock if you want me to. I'll help center you in times of turbulence, and I'll do what I can to ease any burdens that rest on your shoulders. Want a night out with the guys to clear your mind? Go have fun, just be safe. Want a night in with wine and a movie instead? Pick a title and we'll go from there.

Don't worry about telling me things. I promise not to share secrets or take any angry comment to heart. If I'm doing something that bothers you, tell me instead of fighting me on it, and I'll do the same for you. I've got your best interest at heart, and I know you have mine at heart, too.

Don't worry about finding a big, bread-winning career. I know that psychologists don't make a big amount of money, but I don't need a big amount of money to be happy. Find a career that makes you happy; happiness is all we need as a family.

I do want kids, and I hope they grow up to be like us - strong, independent, and caring. I hope that our kids will live happy lives, and that we'll all be happy together as a family.

If, for some reason, we have to end our marriage, I don't want us to end with bad blood between us - I want to mutually reach this decision, and agree to end on friendly terms. but I sincerely hope that it never comes to that.

You're the best blessing that I will ever have. Thank you for being in my life.

I can't wait to meet you.

With love,

Your future wife