To the Guy who broke my Best friends heart... | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

To the Guy who broke my Best friends heart...

I don't necessarily blame you, you don't know a good thing till it's gone.

180
To the Guy who broke my Best friends heart...
https://odysseyimages.s3.amazonaws.com/cropped_BJ-F6iR4z.jpeg

She gave you her all. Her time, her love, her laughter, her trust and her name. And all you gave her was a lock on the door that she, for so long, tried to open. I don't blame you for not realizing her worth, no. Because often times, the best things that could ever happen to someone, slips right through their fingers like sand. 

I would say that I'm surprised, but again, that would be a false statement. You played little games with her until she was ready to call it a tie. The only thing that you did for her, was let her go. 

You will never find anyone as amazing as her. The laughter that you thought was annoying, the little habits that you thought were annoying, the random facts and outbreaks of song and dance in the car, I dare you to look for that in anyone else. 

I don't know why you broke her. Personal gain? Maybe you were trying to prove a point? Were you just bored? Or maybe, it was hurting you, just as bad as it was hurting her.

There are some questions that I will never know the answer to, and to some extent, I thank you for that. I also would like to thank you for allowing her the opportunity to have this heartbreak so It gives her the chance to show herself the strength that comes within, not the strength of mind that's given to you when someone else fights your battles for you.  Thank you for making her happy, no matter how short of a time that might've been. Thank you for breaking her down to a point to where she needs to reach out because now, she knows that I'm always right here. 

She now knows what she doesn't want in a guy, thanks to you. She has the strength to stand on her own two feet that will forever carry her throughout the rest of her life. She now knows when to reach out and to whom to grab onto when life gets rocky. Because of all of the nights she laid in her bed crying until she felt as if she was numb, we were blessed by the opportunity to lay there and cry together. 

Thank you for giving her back to me. But I hate you for what you did to her. 


Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

482050
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

360573
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments