To the Guy who broke my Best friends heart...
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To the Guy who broke my Best friends heart...

I don't necessarily blame you, you don't know a good thing till it's gone.

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To the Guy who broke my Best friends heart...
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She gave you her all. Her time, her love, her laughter, her trust and her name. And all you gave her was a lock on the door that she, for so long, tried to open. I don't blame you for not realizing her worth, no. Because often times, the best things that could ever happen to someone, slips right through their fingers like sand. 

I would say that I'm surprised, but again, that would be a false statement. You played little games with her until she was ready to call it a tie. The only thing that you did for her, was let her go. 

You will never find anyone as amazing as her. The laughter that you thought was annoying, the little habits that you thought were annoying, the random facts and outbreaks of song and dance in the car, I dare you to look for that in anyone else. 

I don't know why you broke her. Personal gain? Maybe you were trying to prove a point? Were you just bored? Or maybe, it was hurting you, just as bad as it was hurting her.

There are some questions that I will never know the answer to, and to some extent, I thank you for that. I also would like to thank you for allowing her the opportunity to have this heartbreak so It gives her the chance to show herself the strength that comes within, not the strength of mind that's given to you when someone else fights your battles for you.  Thank you for making her happy, no matter how short of a time that might've been. Thank you for breaking her down to a point to where she needs to reach out because now, she knows that I'm always right here. 

She now knows what she doesn't want in a guy, thanks to you. She has the strength to stand on her own two feet that will forever carry her throughout the rest of her life. She now knows when to reach out and to whom to grab onto when life gets rocky. Because of all of the nights she laid in her bed crying until she felt as if she was numb, we were blessed by the opportunity to lay there and cry together. 

Thank you for giving her back to me. But I hate you for what you did to her. 


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