There is a high standard to find the perfect partner. They have to meet the ideal of what a perfect relationship looks like from Pinterest or Instagram. They must be perfect for you in all areas of life. And the older I get, the more I see the pressure of whom to chose start to build and build.This is why I will always pick a guy who is considered “nice” to be my boyfriend.

The nice guy is the ones who care. He is the one who will sit and listen to you cry about dramatic things because he knows it is important to you. He is going to be the ones who comes to every performance, presentation or big event that is important to you. He is the one who asks you how your day is going and asks if you need anything because he knows how busy you are. He is the one who isn’t afraid to show you that he cares about you.

The nice guy is the goof ball. He isn’t afraid to be his weird, quirky self. He is the first one to crack a joke and then be the first one to laugh at the joke he just made. He will show you funny animal videos just because. He is the one that makes you laugh harder than anyone else.

The nice guy is going to work hard. He is going to work hard in school because he knows it is cool to be smart. He is going to work hard at his job because he wants to be successful. He is going to work hard to keep you in his life because you are important to him. He will work hard to impress you because he thinks you are “out of their league”.

The nice guy is going to love you like no one else has before. He will tell you how much he loves you all the time. He will hug you and kiss you because he wants to show you off. He is honest, loyal and faithful to you because he respects you. He loves all aspects of who you are.

The nice guy is going to be your best friend. He is going to meet the perfect standard. He is going to be a great fit for you. I suggest dating a nice guy from now on. Once you do, you will never want to go back to anything else.