You Shouldn't Get Extremely Caught Up In New Year's Resolutions

You Shouldn't Get Extremely Caught Up In New Year's Resolutions

You should strive to grow all year round.


I will never truly understand the psychology behind the need to have New Year's resolutions. Sure, being optimistic about the future is great, but why do people feel like they have to wait till the new year to change their bad habits or to start good ones?

You have the power to change your lifestyle at any point in the year: on any day, at any hour. Maybe the start of the new year motivates some to start over, and to feel like the clock striking midnight is a reset button for their life.

If that's the way you want to view change and productivity, that's perfectly okay. But it is important to know that just because it is a "new year" not much has changed. The only thing that has changed is the last number of the date on the top of papers. Besides that, the world still turns the way it turned on December 31st.

The year has changed, but nothing else has, and you won't either unless you really work for what you want. The reason I have an issue with New Year's resolutions is that people set all these crazy high standards for themselves, rush to get them done on January 1st, and burn out and quit about a week later. Then, they carry on the bad habits they tried to break with them until the following year, and the cycle repeats, and repeats, and repeats.

As I said, you have the power to change your lifestyle at any point in the year. If you want to start working out and dieting on April 15th, you can. The new year will not give you an extra boost, only you can give that to yourself.

Do not put all that unnecessary pressure on yourself in January to change. Change is slow and gradual but requires a lot of discipline. I believe that true sooner you start working on yourself the better off you will be.

Sit down and think of all the negative things you do, and try to see how you want to change those things if you really want to change them. Set up a game plan and execute it accordingly. Do this whenever you feel like it is necessary, not just as soon as the clock strikes midnight leading you into the new year because if you only agree to better your life at that moment, your life probably will not change too much.

Take care of yourself all year. If new year's resolutions motivate you to stick to a good plan, then go ahead and make them, check them off when you succeed, and shine. But if you find yourself feeling pressure to succeed this January, take a step back, relax, and think of a plan that you can put into action whenever you feel like you need to.

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To All The Girls Writing 'Lose Weight' As Their 2019 Resolution, Let's Do This

From one girl who wants to lose weight to another, we've got this.


As 2018 comes to a close and 2019 starts anew, all of the goals and accomplishments we wanted to achieve in 2018 that didn't come to fruition make it onto the "New Years' Resolution" list.

One of the most common New Years' Resolutions? Lose weight. And girl, we are going to DO IT this year. (Healthily, of course.)

Losing weight is a conversation topic you just can't avoid. Every scroll down Facebook leads you to a new diet (Keto, Whole30...) and every scroll down Instagram leads you to a new person you wish to look like.

I'm not going to sit here and tell you that you need to lose weight, or that you don't need to lose weight. You can be overweight and still be healthy. You can be of average weight and be unhealthy. This is for the girls who want it. The girls who want their jeans to go on with less of a struggle, the girls who know how much better a healthier lifestyle will make them feel. The girls who have been big all their life or who just gained some freshman or post-grad weight or just know it is time to be a healthier version of themselves.

I aimed to start my weight loss journey every single month this year and failed. Maybe you did, too. Maybe you made some progress, or maybe you went backward. Whatever happened in 2018, 2019 is a time to start fresh.

The first step is realizing that you are NOT defined by your weight or your measurements or your jeans size. Whether you lose the weight or not, you are radiant and beautiful and worthy of love from others and yourself. If you choose to use the scale or not, that is your choice. But know that your success at reaching your goal weight is not indicative of your success as a person.

The second step is setting up a plan. Where do you tend to slip up? Do you eat tons of healthy foods but never step foot in the gym? Are you excellent at regular workouts but can't seem to say goodbye to pizza for a few days? Are both of these problems for you? Look at recipes, find easy meals to prep for yourself, get an accountability buddy for the gym. Write down daily workouts, track calories, do whatever you think will work for you. Set up a plan and stick with it. Make this plan REASONABLE, because if you make it too difficult, you'll give up quickly.

The third step is execution. (See? Only three steps, we can do this!) Print out your daily plan so you can see if you miss a day, or use an app like ChangeIt to set up a daily to-do list. At the same time, DO NOT get discouraged if you miss a day (or even a week). Messing up can be unavoidable, but giving up is a choice. Don't make that choice.

Being healthier can help you reach other non-scale goals as well. For instance, if skin-care is something you want to focus on in 2019, regular exercise can help with that. If saving money is something you want to focus on in 2019, not ordering or eating out on a regular basis can help with that. Exercise and healthy foods make me less tired, slower to frustrate and generally happier - all non-weight related benefits of a healthier lifestyle.

From one gal who wants to lose weight to another, 2019 is our year. Good luck as you start this journey, I know you can do it.

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New Year's Resolutions You’ve Made But Never Kept

Maybe this year you'll try harder to be better.



1. The Weight Resolutions:

  • I'm going to eat healthier
  • I'm going to lose weight
  • I'm going to the gym more
  • I'm going to stop snacking all day
  • I'm going to stop eating fast food

2. The Religious Resolutions:

  • I'm going to read my Bible more
  • I'm going to pray more
  • I'm going to go to church every Sunday
  • I'm going to act more Christlike
  • I'm going to honor God in the things I do

3. The Addict Resolutions:

  • I'm going to stop drinking/drink less
  • I'm going to smoke less/stop smoking
  • I'm going to spend less money at bars
  • I'm going to stop drinking beer
  • I'm going to become less addicted to alcohol and drugs

4. The Overly Ambitious Resolutions:

  • I'm going to climb Mount Everest
  • I'm going to travel more
  • I'm going to finally quit my job
  • I'm going to ask her/him out
  • I'm going to change who I am to be a better person

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