A Nation Divided Cannot Stand

A Nation Divided Cannot Stand

Just because we're different doesn't mean we can hate each other.

We were warned this would happen. Washington told us that political parties wouldn't be successful. Yet, they were inevitable. We're all different; we all have different beliefs, different dreams, and different views of life, and no matter how hard we try not to be, we'll always be different.

Differences are great. Could you imagine living in a world where everyone was the same? There would be no new ideas, no exciting surprises, and no different ways of thinking. It would be a monotonous, average world.

Our political differences have always been very evident. However, in the past few years, they've been more evident than ever before. Until this election, I viewed the relationship between Republicans and Democrats as one of toleration, but as this election has come to a close, my whole outlook has been changed. People are attacking each other on social media for belonging to a certain party. Republicans are being stereotyped as a group of "homophobic, racist misogynists." Democrats are viewed as "baby killing, ISIS supporting radicals." And you know what? These words hurt. These words hurt both sides, because, quite frankly, they're not true. They're not the sum of the parts. They're lies used as a defense mechanism, when in reality, we're all hurting.

Minority groups are in complete and utter fear of our new president. People who voted for Trump are in fear of the angry few who didn't. Everyone is scared, everyone is hurt, and no one knows what to do.

Forget the election. Forget our new president. We all need to take a step back and realize that no matter what our political beliefs are, we're all American: every single one of us. And while our first instinct is to protect ourselves from getting hurt, all we're doing is hurting others.

This nation is full of hurt right now, and all of my frustration is coming from the fact that instead of trying to fix it, we're all just making it worse. Hating each other because of our differences is not the solution. Hating each other because of who we voted for is not going to change who became president. All we're doing is hurting each other and making this nation a broken and sad place to live in.

"Hate- It has caused a lot of problems in this world but it has not solved one yet." -Maya Angelou

So what now? What do we do? How do you fix the hurt, fear, and frustration? We can't undo the election. We can't change who sits in the Oval Office, but we can change how well we love each other. Just because we disagree with each other doesn't mean we have the right to hate each other. I don't really know what there is to do to fix this immediately, but we all just need to stop attacking each other. You can't hate someone because of who they voted for, and you can't hate someone because of who they didn't vote for. We're all different, and this hate is dividing our nation.

My prayer for this nation is that we learn to love despite our differences. I pray that there is an overwhelming amount of love that is shown to people of every political background, race, and religion. I pray that Republicans and Democrats alike can put their differences aside and focus on piecing this nation back together. We can't change the outcome of the election, but we can change how we treat each other, and that, in my opinion, is still so, so important.

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I'm The Girl Who'd Rather Raise A Family Than A Feminist Protest Sign

You raise your protest picket signs and I’ll raise my white picket fence.

Social Media feeds are constantly filled with quotes on women's rights, protests with mobs of women, and an array of cleverly worded picket signs.

Good for them, standing up for their beliefs and opinions. Will I be joining my tight-knit family of the same gender?

Nope, no thank you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not going to be oblivious to my history and the advancements that women have fought to achieve. I am aware that the strides made by many women before me have provided us with voting rights, a voice, equality, and equal pay in the workforce.

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For that, I am deeply thankful. But at this day in age, I know more female managers in the workforce than male. I know more women in business than men. I know more female students in STEM programs than male students. So what’s with all the hype? We are girl bosses, we can run the world, we don’t need to fight the system anymore.

Please stop.

Because it is insulting to the rest of us girls who are okay with being homemakers, wives, or stay-at-home moms. It's dividing our sisterhood, and it needs to stop.

All these protests and strong statements make us feel like now we HAVE to obtain a power position in our career. It's our rightful duty to our sisters. And if we do not, we are a disappointment to the gender and it makes us look weak.

Weak to the point where I feel ashamed to say to a friend “I want to be a stay at home mom someday.” Then have them look at me like I must have been brain-washed by a man because that can be the only explanation. I'm tired of feeling belittled for being a traditionalist.


Because why should I feel bad for wanting to create a comfortable home for my future family, cooking for my husband, being a soccer mom, keeping my house tidy? Because honestly, I cannot wait.

I will have no problem taking my future husband’s last name, and following his lead.

The Bible appoints men to be the head of a family, and for wives to submit to their husbands. (This can be interpreted in so many ways, so don't get your panties in a bunch at the word “submit”). God specifically made women to be gentle and caring, and we should not be afraid to embrace that. God created men to be leaders with the strength to carry the weight of a family.

However, in no way does this mean that the roles cannot be flipped. If you want to take on the responsibility, by all means, you go girl. But for me personally? I'm sensitive, I cry during horror movies, I'm afraid of basements and dark rooms. I, in no way, am strong enough to take on the tasks that men have been appointed to. And I'm okay with that.

So please, let me look forward to baking cookies for bake sales and driving a mom car.

And I'll support you in your endeavors and climb to the top of the corporate ladder. It doesn't matter what side you are on as long as we support each other, because we all need some girl power.

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Arizona Is Known For Its Women Leaders

Twenty years after Arizona elected the "Fab Five," the first women Senators from Arizona were sent to Washington.


The year is 1998, 4 years after the "Year of the Woman." Arizona elects five women to its top statewide offices. Four Republicans, and one Democrat. Governor Jane Dee Hull, Secretary of State Betsey Bayless, Attorney General Janet Napolitano, Secretary of Public Instruction Lisa Graham Keegan, and State Treasurer Carol Springer. The first state in the country to pull it off. Arizona has had a long history of electing women to statewide offices. Arizona elected five women to statewide offices as well as its first female Senator. This isn't new for Arizonans, they elected women into statewide office just in 2014, with Michele Reagan as Secretary of State and Diane Douglas as Superintendent of Public Instruction.

Arizonans are very civically independent people, they take their right to vote extremely serious. They do their homework on candidates, and even though Republican usually dominate here, they still choose the best candidate they see fit, whether they be male or female. Arizona now has two female Senators, Kyrsten Sinema, and Martha McSally, who was appointed back in December. Not only are we represented federally by women, but we are also represented by three women at the state capitol. Kimberly Yee, State Treasurer, Kathy Hoffman Superintendent of Public Instruction, and Katie Hobbs Secretary of State. Not only are they women, but two of them are Democrats. Back in 1998, four were Republicans and just one was a Democrat.

Although we Arizonans have elected several women into office, we are still seeing a shift in who represents us. Democrats made huge strides in the last election in the state legislature, and several think that 2018 was just the beginning. The Grand Canyon State is very picky when it comes to its leaders, and it has no fear of electing women. 2020 is less than one year away, and it will be interesting to see how Arizona not only votes for its state leaders, but also for President.

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