My Money, My Choices

My Money, My Choices

And if you don't like it, too bad.

Money. It doesn’t grow on trees, and it’s the most difficult thing in the world to keep. It takes forever to accumulate, and once you do, make sure you aren’t going crazy and losing it. Money makes people make stupid decisions, but there are the people that use it to make some good come out in the world. Those are the people that one might applaud and challenge to take on a mission to help the individuals that use money for bad.

But what about the people who just live? The people who use their money to get, say, a nose piercing, or a movie ticket, and then come into fire. Are those people that we are supposed to judge and ridicule because of what they decided to spend their money on? Or do they just get to live their life?

Well, to be honest, I think you can do whatever the hell you want with your money. You pay your bills, and then want to go and treat yourself? Do it. You want to get a nose piercing because it’s something you have always wanted to do? Do it. You want to buy a McChicken because you are ridiculously hungry and want something fast and easy? Do it. You want to go with a friend and watch a movie because it’s tradition? Do it.

I can’t say enough how many times I have come across posts and tweets, and had people tell me to my face, how one should be careful with their money. And while I agree with that, what’s the harm in choosing to get a tattoo because I have worked hard and saved extra money to treat myself with this simple gift? What’s the harm in doing something that impacts NO ONE other than myself?

I work my ass off, and at the end of the day, it all comes down to my money, and my choices. I should be aloud to do what I want too. Have I struggled in the past with money? You betcha. But I have learned to appreciate the value of a dollar, and to know when an expense crosses a line, or that it just is not in the budget. I have learned that people are going to judge me anyways, whether I buy fruit loops, or something healthy, or pay the light bill before the rent. So why not prioritize myself and then do whatever the hell I want?

It’s my money. It’s my choices. It’s my mistakes. It’s my life.

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17 Empowering Bible Verses For Women

You go, girl.

We all have those days where we let the negative thoughts that we're "not good enough," "not pretty enough" or "not smart enough" invade our minds. It's easy to lose hope in these situations and to feel like it would be easier to just give up. However, the Bible reminds us that these things that we tell ourselves are not true and it gives us the affirmations that we need. Let these verses give you the power and motivation that you're lacking.

1. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future."

2. Psalm 46:5

"God is within her, she will not fall."

3. Luke 1:45

"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her."

4. Proverbs 31:17

"She is energetic and strong, a hard worker."

5. Psalm 28:7

"The Lord is my strength and my shield."

6. Proverbs 11:16

"A gracious woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth."

7. Joshua 1:9

"Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

8. Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised."

9. 1 Corinthians 15:10

"By the grace of God, I am what I am."

10. Proverbs 31:26

"When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness."

11. Psalm 139:14

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

12. 1 Peter 3:3-4

"Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."

13. Colossians 2:10

"And in Christ you have been brought to fullness."

14. 2 Timothy 1:7

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

15. Jeremiah 29:11

"'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'"

16. Exodus 14:14

"The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm."

17. Song of Songs 4:7

"You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way."

Next time you're feeling discouraged or weak, come back to these verses and use them to give you the strength and power that you need to conquer your battles.

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The Power Of Journaling

Slowing down in a fast pace world.


In a world where everything is moving so fast pace, I have found comfort in taking small moments to reflect on the blurring images around me. I have always loved to journal, but recently I have found a system that works very well for me.

One habit that I have newly formed is creating a section in my journal that I like to call "Get Out of My Head." Life moves very fast and sometimes my thoughts can't keep up. This causes stress, anxiety, sadness and even the feeling of loneliness. I have created this section in my journal to be a safe place where I can just scribble down whatever is taking over my head, but there is a trick.

Like I stated previously, I have always loved to journal, but I never found ultimate comfort in it because I would go back and read what I wanted to remove from my mind. This was causing me to reexperience what I didn't want to. I highly suggest having a place in your journal that is essentially a flame for all th4e thoughts you want to rid of.

On the contrary, have a section in your journal where you love to look. I try and fill this section with happy thoughts, quotes, verses, and gratitude. This makes journaling and reading your entries something to look forward to, rather than not.

In conclusion, journaling is unique for everyone and it takes some time to figure out exactly the right way. But once you discover the safe place that journaling can be, it can change your life forever.

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