Motivate Yourself For A Healthy Mindset, Body, And Lifestyle

Motivate Yourself For A Healthy Mindset, Body, And Lifestyle

Having a healthy mind and body doesn’t require starving or overworking yourself—it just takes motivation.

Living a healthy lifestyle is one of those conversations people dread talking about. Our first thoughts are often, “I can’t eat what I want” or “I have to run for hours.” This really isn’t the case. Having a healthy mind and body doesn’t require starving or overworking yourself. Establishing clear motivators and defining what is stopping you will lead to creating a better relationship with the gym.

Staying on track with a healthy lifestyle is easier said than done. To continue on the road to self-improvement, it is essential to remain motivated. First, identify why it is you are working out in the first place. For me, I do NOT exercise because I hate my body; I exercise because I love it. I wish to obtain an active lifestyle in order to enjoy all of life’s benefits.

Start by writing out every reason why you want to stay active—and it may be reasons beyond what you desire. For example, it may be for your children, or maybe you know someone close to you who is unable to stay active due to injury. Make it a priority to work out for them each time you walk into the gym.

Many of us don’t have these outside motivators. If you’re one of these people, then try to think of reasons that pertain to you. For example, did you have a rough day at work? Or maybe you just need some 'me' time. Going to the gym might be exactly what you’re needing to reduce stress and keep peace within yourself.

Motivation is the key to consistently attending to your body's needs and giving it the activity it desires. Try writing down why you must attend the gym daily and hang them up where you know you will see them. By forcing yourself to view your goals, it will be almost impossible to ignore your body. Visible motivation will keep you on a regular gym schedule and remind you why you started in the first place.

Now that your motivators are set and clear, we need to analyze why we may not be attending the gym as well. Write out a list of excuses that you make, may make, or have made in the past to skip the gym each day to identify where you can change your mindset. If you identify your excuses, you can determine what your mind is actually telling you by making such excuses. My list consists of:

“I'm too busy today”

This one is one of my most common excuses, but the truth is, we make time for what’s important—and what’s more important than your health? You make time for friends, T.V. shows, and so on. Saying you’re too busy to hit the gym translates to: your body isn’t important to you.

Not every workout needs to be an hour or more in length; a short 30-minute cardio or lift session is sufficient and is better than doing nothing at all. Don’t let your mind trick you into thinking that each workout needs to be hours in length.

“I already walked a lot today”

Another excuse used to avoid putting your time in at the gym. It’s totally acceptable to count your steps, but using it to justify skipping a workout is only limiting yourself. Push yourself to be the best you and hit the gym even if you’ve hit your step count for the day.

“I am too tired”

This is an excuse that crosses my mind daily to avoid the gym. One thing we need to understand is that much like money, you have to spend some to make some. That means by going to the gym and exercising, you are actually creating energy that is stored for later. Being too tired is a terrible excuse because exercising helps wake you up and provides more than you started with.

Not only does it improve your energy throughout the day, it improves your mood as well. If you’re “too tired” or not feeling up to it, just remember that hitting the gym only increases your chance of having a better day.

These are just some of the excuses that I can make on a regular basis; and of course, there are so many more that I encounter. By identifying what you are really saying, my hope is that this will help your presence at the gym become more persistent. If you think of the excuses as “my body is not a priority,” instead of “I have no time,” you wouldn’t use that excuse as regularly. I challenge you to try these simple tricks and tips to keep a healthy mindset and body.

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Your Health Journey Is A Marathon, Not A Sprint

Perfection takes time.


When you first start to do something, you have all of the motivation in the world to accomplish that goal set out in front of you, especially when it comes to being healthier. The problem is as you continue through this journey and food and laziness kick in, motivation slips. It's human, and it happens to everyone no matter how physically strong they are.

Trying to be healthier doesn't always mean losing weight. It can be so your knees don't ache as much, so you don't feel as out of breath climbing stairs, or any goal you have set for yourself. Being healthier is personal and different from person to person.

I will be the first to admit that there are plenty of changes I would love to make about myself. From my weight to my body type and many other things about myself inside and out. I am by no means the most confident person about how I look, but I have worked hard for the past year to be an overall healthier person.

Becoming healthier isn't about looking thinner or fitting into a specific size of clothes. It is about taking care of yourself from eating better to working out more. There comes a feeling of confidence in what your body can do if you put a little love in it.

Perfection takes time, and I know firsthand how frustrating trying to be healthier can be.

Pizza tastes so much better than salad. It is so easy to fall into a rhythm of something that seems never to change whether that is your weight or your mile time. Sadly, you can't build a city, or become healthier overnight.

We see people who are thinner, curvier, smarter, faster, and so much more than us. We all waste time comparing ourselves to people around us and on our timelines, but some of our biggest strengths are our individuality and the gift of getting back up after falling down.

All I can say is, please don't give up on your goal of being healthier because this is solely for you. We can have a great support system in the world and have everyone in our corner, but that isn't enough.

You need yourself. You need to know that if you don't entirely put yourself in this journey, then you won't fully succeed. Your commitment to bettering yourself can keep you going even if you want to give up.

Your motivation may not be at its peak level right now, and you may have every cell in your body screaming at you to quit. Don't do it. Prove to yourself that you can keep going no matter what. Not giving up will be worth it. The results and taking the hard way will make you a stronger person inside and out.

You can do this. You can do anything you want to accomplish if you just believe in yourself. You need to understand that becoming healthier takes endurance. There will be periods where you slow down and may not be going at your fastest pace. The difference is that you are not giving up and you are still trying and moving.

Don't treat becoming healthier as a sprint: short term and quick. That mentality will only leave you feeling deflated and defeated. It is a life-long marathon of pacing yourself and pushing yourself further than ever before.

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