How To Morally Vote Conservative This Election

How To Morally Vote Conservative This Election

I have conservative values, but I don't want to betray my morals when I vote, either.

I absolutely love following politics and government affairs. Nothing gets me going more than a good roundtable discussion on MSNBC. 2016 is the first Presidential election I'm old enough to vote in, so you can imagine how disappointed I am.

I mean, here I am, all fresh-faced and starry-eyed, ready to enter that voting booth like a debutante at the Cotillion, and my choices on the ballot are a sexist pig or a manipulative liar. Well, THAT knocks my excitement down a few pegs...

I mean, what am I supposed to do? I am passionately conservative. I believe in small government, I'm pro-life, and for the most part, I support the 2nd amendment (with some rational restrictions). I like listening to Sean Hannity, I wish I was alive for the Reagan years, and I wholeheartedly believe Mitt Romney, Jeb Bush, John McCain or Carly Fiorina would have made great presidents. I want our country to go in a conservative direction. I want the vote I cast to reflect my beliefs AND my values. But, can it really do that if I vote for Donald Trump?

Donald Trump, a man who insults women's integrity and value, doesn't pay taxes, manipulates the economy, and makes racist remarks. This is not a conservative, this is a bigot. Some people may say there's no difference, but I believe there is. Being conservative does not mean one has to talk and act like they're straight out of the 1940's or 50's, before many groups in our country reached the equality they've fought long and hard to get. He makes me uncomfortable as a woman. Donald Trump says things that make him, quite frankly, a jerk, and I can't morally vote for a jerk.

But then who do I vote for? Hillary Clinton? I need to think not only of my moral standards, but also my conservative views and the direction I want to see the country go. I know some people think Clinton's agenda is best, but I politely disagree. And unfortunately, I do believe that voting for a 3rd party candidate is basically the same as giving my vote to Clinton. And there's no way I'm skipping my first election - it's my duty as a citizen who has an opinion to vote, and I've been dreaming of this day for a long time!

So what's a female Christian conservative to do? Betray her morals and vote for Trump, or betray her politics and vote for Clinton? Skip her civil duty of voting?

I have a better idea and it actually comes from Candace Cameron Bure, star of "The View", "Fuller House", and "Dancing With The Stars". I was being completely unproductive and watching "The View" the other day, and when she said her plan for voting this year, I knew it was exactly what I want to do to, too.

Bure said her plan is this: she won't betray any of her values, because she won't be voting for President. But she still plans on voting. She is going to abstain from voting for President, but will vote conservative down the line for everything else, from Senate to School Board.

The president isn't the only one who makes big decisions in our government- from who goes on the Supreme Court to what laws get put into motion, the other leaders we pick this November matter, too. My hope is that no matter who is president, my vote will make a difference in how this country runs.

I don't plan on betraying any side of my beliefs this November, but I do plan on excercising my right as an American citizen and voting for what I believe really will make America great.

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1. They will do anything for you, literally.

My stepdad has done any and every thing for me. From when I was little until now. He was and still is my go-to. If I was hungry, he would get me food. If something was broken, he would fix it. If I wanted something, he would normally always find a way to get it. He didn't spoil me (just sometimes), but he would make sure that I was always taken care of.

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2. Life lessons.

Yup, the tough one. My stepdad has taught me things that I would have never figured out on my own. He has stood beside me through every mistake. He has been there to pick me up when I am down. My stepdad is like the book of knowledge: crazy hormonal teenage edition. Boy problems? He would probably make me feel better. He just always seemed to know what to say. I think that the most important lesson that I have learned from my stepdad is: to never give up. My stepdad has been through three cycles of leukemia. He is now in remission, yay!! But, I never heard him complain. I never heard him worry and I never saw him feeling sorry for himself. Through you, I found strength.

3. He loved me as his own.

The big one, the one that may seem impossible to some step parents. My stepdad is not actually my stepdad, but rather my dad. I will never have enough words to explain how grateful I am for this man, which is why I am attempting to write this right now. It takes a special kind of human to love another as if they are their own. There had never been times where I didn't think that my dad wouldn't be there for me. It was like I always knew he would be. He introduces me as his daughter, and he is my dad. I wouldn't have it any other way. You were able to show me what family is.

So, dad... thanks. Thanks for being you. Thanks for being awesome. Thanks for being strong. Thanks for loving me. Thanks for loving my mom. Thanks for giving me a wonderful little sister. Thanks for being someone that I can count on. Thanks for being my dad.

I love you!

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Why The Idea Of 'No Politics At The Dinner Table' Takes Place And Why We Should Avoid It

When did having a dialogue become so rare?


Why has the art of civilized debate and conversation become unheard of in daily life? Why is it considered impolite to talk politics with coworkers and friends? Expressing ideas and discussing different opinions should not be looked down upon.

I have a few ideas as to why this is our current societal norm.

1. Politics is personal.

Your politics can reveal a lot about who you are. Expressing these (sometimes controversial) opinions may put you in a vulnerable position. It is possible for people to draw unfair conclusions from one viewpoint you hold. This fosters a fear of judgment when it comes to our political beliefs.

Regardless of where you lie on the spectrum of political belief, there is a world of assumption that goes along with any opinion. People have a growing concern that others won't hear them out based on one belief.

As if a single opinion could tell you all that you should know about someone. Do your political opinions reflect who you are as a person? Does it reflect your hobbies? Your past?

The question becomes "are your politics indicative enough of who you are as a person to warrant a complete judgment?"

Personally, I do not think you would even scratch the surface of who I am just from knowing my political identification.

2. People are impolite.

The politics themselves are not impolite. But many people who wield passionate, political opinion act impolite and rude when it comes to those who disagree.

The avoidance of this topic among friends, family, acquaintances and just in general, is out of a desire to 'keep the peace'. Many people have friends who disagree with them and even family who disagree with them. We justify our silence out of a desire to avoid unpleasant situations.

I will offer this: It might even be better to argue with the ones you love and care about, because they already know who you are aside from your politics, and they love you unconditionally (or at least I would hope).

We should be having these unpleasant conversations. And you know what? They don't even need to be unpleasant! Shouldn't we be capable of debating in a civilized manner? Can't we find common ground?

I attribute the loss of political conversation in daily life to these factors. 'Keeping the peace' isn't an excuse. We should be discussing our opinions constantly and we should be discussing them with those who think differently.

Instead of discouraging political conversation, we should be encouraging kindness and understanding. That's how we will avoid the unpleasantness that these conversations sometimes bring.

By avoiding them altogether, we are doing our youth a disservice because they are not being exposed to government, law, and politics, and they are not learning to deal with people and ideas that they don't agree with.

Next Thanksgiving, talk politics at the table.

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