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Mom And Dad, I Know It's Long Overdue, But Thank You

Everyone needs a little lovin' from time to time.


Dear mom and dad,

You wake up every day and the first thing that is on your mind is us, your daughters.

We realize that not everyone can always have the best day ever, but we thank you for trying to make us seem like you do. You have put up with our bad moods, friend drama, and even heartbreaks. But you never fail to help us get back up.

We know that you guys aren't perfect, because neither are we, but to us, we couldn't ask for anyone better to be our parents. You raised us into the young women we are today, and we all know the struggles that came along with that,

But you never gave up on making us the best possible people you could. And for that, you deserve more than a pat on the back. That is why I write this letter to you.


I grew up wanting to be just like you. I will always have a little tom-boy in me from us tossing a football in the front yard to going quad riding in our backyard. Those things made me the strong and hard headed woman I am today.

We both have experienced the same kind of things bringing us closer together as the years go by. You help me through my tough times and through helping me, it benefits you, even though it may not seem like it at the moment.

I want to thank you for driving to Lexington in the middle of the night just to make sure I was alright. I want to thank you for picking me back up when I was at my lowest. I want to thank you for being the best dad a daughter could ask for.

I love you.


I always was a daddy's girl throughout the years, but as I grow up, I realize more and more every day how much you have influenced me. The littlest things you say to me have the biggest impact.

We definitely had our years where we became more distant than we wanted to from each other, but we never stopped loving each other. Yes, we fought A LOT, but through those fights, we actually grew closer together.

When I went away to college, you were always the person I called when I needed advice. You made me feel at home even though I was miles away. You make me feel loved every chance you get and I thank you for that.

I love you.

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To The Parent Who Chose Addiction

Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.


When I was younger I resented you, I hated every ounce of you, and I used to question why God would give me a parent like you. Not now. Now I see the beauty and the blessings behind having an addict for a parent. If you're reading this, it isn't meant to hurt you, but rather to thank you.

Thank you for choosing your addiction over me.

Throughout my life, you have always chosen the addiction over my programs, my swim meets or even a simple movie night. You joke about it now or act as if I never questioned if you would wake up the next morning from your pill and alcohol-induced sleep, but I thank you for this. I thank you because I gained a relationship with God. The amount of time I spent praying for you strengthened our relationship in ways I could never explain.

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Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.

The amount of hurt and disappointment our family has gone through has brought us closer together. I have a relationship with Nanny and Pop that would never be as strong as it is today if you had been in the picture from day one. That in itself is a blessing.

Thank you for showing me how to love.

From your absence, I have learned how to love unconditionally. I want you to know that even though you weren't here, I love you most of all. No matter the amount of heartbreak, tears, and pain I've felt, you will always be my greatest love.

Thank you for making me strong.

Thank you for leaving and for showing me how to be independent. From you, I have learned that I do not need anyone else to prove to me that I am worthy of being loved. From you, I have learned that life is always hard, but you shouldn't give into the things that make you feel good for a short while, but should search for the real happiness in life.

Most of all, thank you for showing me how to turn my hurt into motivation.

I have learned that the cycle of addiction is not something that will continue into my life. You have hurt me more than anyone, but through that hurt, I have pushed myself to become the best version of myself.

Thank you for choosing the addiction over me because you've made me stronger, wiser, and loving than I ever could've been before.

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