To Mom And Dad, From Your Little Girl

To Mom And Dad, From Your Little Girl

There aren't enough words to thank you for all that you do for me, but here's a start.

Being the youngest in the family comes with its ups and downs, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I look up to my siblings and ever since I was little, I've strived to be like them. However, my siblings and I would not be who we are today without the two heroes in our lives that we call our parents. There are not enough words to describe how grateful I am for all that my parents do for me. From being the first people I ever laid eyes on to supporting me through college, there's a whole journey between and nothing can describe our memories together.

Dear mom and dad,

There's not enough "thank you's" in the world to describe how grateful I am. You've both had my back since day one, even through all of my mistakes. Through our arguments (which I most likely started), you both never failed to stick by me. You constantly believed in me when I didn't believe in myself. Through my embarrassing teenage years, you somehow dealt with me. Although all of my breakdowns were most likely over things that do not matter now, you always reassured me that whatever the issue was, it'll all work out eventually.

From wanting to be a princess, to a soccer star, to a firefighter, to a surgeon and to millions of other occupations, you've supported all of my dreams and goals no matter how high I set them. You've taught me that there is no dream too high. I thank you both for that because I wouldn't be where I am today without that lesson.

Thank you for being my biggest fans. Whether I was running in a track meet, goalie in a soccer game or playing one of the hundreds of instruments I tried, you were always front row and cheering me on.

Dad, from daddy-daughter dances to always practicing with your kids for their sports games, you have always been the man I look up to. You're always the first person any of your children call when there's a car question and that will never change. I'm still your "princess" and because of you, I've learned to work hard, to never give up on anything I do and to find the good in everything.

Mom, I don't know how you dealt with being the "cookie-mom" for girl scouts all of those years, but somehow you did. You're not only a mom to me, you're also my best friend and you're such an amazing role model. Your strength never fails to amaze me and I'm blessed to have someone as strong as you to look up to. You've shown me that I am so much stronger than I ever thought possible and for that, I have made it through what I considered my hardest moments.

Thank you both for showing me what family really is and how much love there is to give.

Being the youngest, I saw you both put my siblings into college and you were on the journey with them. You work hard and do everything possible to provide us with great lives. Before we knew it, I was also on the journey of growing up. I'm not little anymore, but I'm still your little girl. Thank you for giving me infinite amounts of love, even when I may not deserve it.

It's hard to believe that I am journeying through college now, but I wouldn't be here without all of your support; it's more than I could ever ask for. You visit me and send me packages with whatever I need and sometimes just as surprises. I know we can drive each other crazy and do not always see eye-to-eye, but we always figure it out and power though.

You constantly say how proud you are of me and I appreciate that, but I'm also proud of you. I'm proud of you for putting three children through college and supporting every single one of their decisions and most of all, I'm proud to call you my parents.

"All that I am, I owe to my family."

Love always,

Your Little Girl

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To The Girl Who Always Feels Left Out

Maybe next time...

To the girl who always feels left out,

Girl, let me just tell you, I know the feeling. It feels as though my whole life, I have been that girl. You know that feeling when you are standing in a group of people and someone comes up and asks everyone to go to lunch in that group... But you?

Or they make it even worse by saying "Oh, I guess you can come too." You guess I can come to?

No, thank you.

At that point, you feel like the only reason you are being invited is that they feel like they have to. Which more than likely is actually the case. What about when you ask your friend to hang out and she can't because she will be doing homework all night? However, an hour later, you see her with your other best friend. Oh okay cool, sorry for bothering you with my friendship.

You know you are the girl who is always left out when you are the designated "photographer" or you have to specifically ask if you can take a picture with them because they are obviously done taking pictures and did not want one with you.

SEE ALSO: To The Girls Who 'Float' Between Friend Groups

We all know "Hey, will you take this picture of us?" all too well. Am I right, ladies? Oh yeah, it is fine. I hate being in pictures. I definitely hate taking pictures to remember this wonderful time I'm having.

What about when you and your friends discuss doing something later during the week and you ask about it but "It's probably not happening anymore." Then you check and would you look at that, your "friends" are having fun without you.


Oh but don't worry about it, I had things to do anyway. You know, clean the house, work on homework that is due next week, binge-watch The Office for the third time this week. Fun stuff. Oh and better yet when you see your friends are hanging out without you. The next time they see you, they talk about how much fun they had.

Oh yes, please tell me about how much fun you had without me. I totally enjoy hearing about how "I totally missed out" and "I should have come." Well, an invite would have been well appreciated. But maybe next time, right? Wrong.

Yeah, I know what you are thinking, "Wow this girl is being so petty." Well if you are thinking that, then you obviously do not know the feeling. And to think about it, you probably are not the one in the friend group who is being left out. So think about who that person is and make them feel included next time. It would be greatly appreciated. You do not know how much of a difference it could make.

Yes, I know everyone feels left out sometimes, but time after time, it starts to get really old. Then after you have to start inviting yourself to hang out with people, you realize well since they are not inviting me themselves, maybe they don't want me here. And then surprisingly, you stop hanging out with them. Hmmm, I wonder what could've possibly happened.

Yes, I know, most people do not do this on purpose. I am sure I have even done it once or twice without realizing it, and I am truly sorry.

From one left out girl to another,

Good Luck

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My Life Has Not Been The Same Since I Met My Father

He showed me angels, and told me I could put my weapons down because I've got protectors.


I rang in 2019 with sexual sin and instead of being convicted, I felt condemnation (see previous blog post). This, coupled with isolation and watching my fellow seniors have future plans while I didn't have any for post-undergrad, caused me to be in a dark place from January to the first week of April. I honestly didn't want to live anymore, convinced there was no point to my life. Three months, 1 week, and 3 days later, I went on my first A Life Retreat from April 11th to the 14th.

We arrived at the retreat site on the 11th at night so I was just expectant for the next day, but I was trying not to be excited because I didn't want to be brokenhearted if Jesus passed me by. On the 12th, during the last session for the day, many of my peers were getting delivered. I was praying for their deliverance while hoping for my encounter with Christ. However, something shifted in me and I became jealous. I remember thinking I wish I had some demons in me so that God will finally pay me some attention (we could unpack another day so this post isn't 5 pages long). I began to doubt God, I stopped praying and was looking around with a cynical smile on my face.

After the leadership team dismissed us, I went to sit down, angry and dejected. Someone asked me if I was okay. I lied, answering yes. Another person asked me; I lied again. A third person asked, and I finally told the truth saying, "no, but it's whatever". She asked if she could pray for me and I said, "you can do what you want but it's not going to change anything". I reasoned, if God won't show up for me when I prayed for myself, why would He show up when someone else does. With persistence, she began to pray for me, but I wasn't paying attention. I was just thinking she will be done soon and go her way.

She didn't end quickly so I began hearing the words of her prayer. She was saying, "God loves you." I was chuckling, thinking yeah, right. As she continued to pray those sweet words over me, telling me what God was saying and thinking about me, I began to speak out loud what was in mind, telling her that she was lying. After some back and forth, some A Life leaders came over and began to pray for me and after a good fight, deliverance took place. I became free from the stronghold of the spirit of doubt.

The next day, I was hypersensitive to the voice of God. At the beginning of the first session, I heard Him tell me to put my shield down and what I saw behind it was incredible. I had detached a part of myself that was much younger than the current me and I would transfer all the blame of my past onto her. Everything I hated about myself I put on her (this younger version of me). God told me I was supposed to unite with her, but I didn't want to. I told myself I was shielding her to protect her, but actually, I was trying to hide her in order to hate myself less or to avoid judgment. I couldn't move forward until we became one. After another deliverance session in which I was able to forgive myself and reconcile all parts of me, I felt empty, but in a good way. While on break for the day, I remember thanking God for freeing me and asking Him to fill me back up.

Throughout the last session on the 13th, He showed up and showed out for His little girl. I saw multiple visions of how much God loves me. I don't really have an intimate relationship with my natural father so what happened that night was pivotal in my life.

In my first vision, while I was praising and worshipping Him, God told me to rest my head on His shoulder while He told me how much He loves me.

Then He told me to lay my head on his lap and at this point, I'm crying because He's also telling me how He feels about me and how beautiful I am.

He showed me angels, multitudes, and told me I could put my weapons away because I've got protectors and defenders.

He told me that they had always been there even when I could not see them and He did all this while hugging me.

There was so much more that God told me and showed me, but I'm focusing on these few because it tackled the daddy issues and brother issues I had.

My life has literally not been the same ever since April 13th, 2019. I don't even know how to put into words how my life has been, how I have felt, how much love I have in my life. I just want everyone else in the world to feel what I feel, to know what I know, to encounter WHO I encountered. I also want to thank the A Life leadership team. Just in case any of you are reading this, "thank you. I can only imagine the amount of time you had to spend in your secret place with The Most High so that you were able to war for me, and the other A Lifers with Him in the open. May our Father replenish and reward you for being dedicated to people to see them saved and FREE. I love you all."

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