To The Millennials Who Defy The Stereotype

To The Millennials Who Defy The Stereotype

We are a generation unlike any other, so please bear with us as we find our way.

I'm not sure if you watch the show "Survivor" or not, but this season the series was showcasing the Millennials versus Gen X age group. Usually I am a HUGE "Survivor" fanatic; however, this season I was pretty disappointed at the contestants they had chosen to represent the Millennials, who were lazy, uneducated, selfish, entitled, and materialistic.

Regardless of the contestants chosen to represent the Millennials on "Survivor" this year, I am here to tell you that we are not all like that.

Our generation has many things to be proud of.

Did you know that our generation is the most educated generation in Western history?

Our generation has the most higher educational degrees including Bachelor's, Masters's, Doctorate's, and other professional degrees. Going to college is not an easy task. It requires hard work, dedication, and intelligence. If we truly were a lazy and uneducated generation, why are these numbers so high?

Millennials are hard-working individuals who strive to pursue higher education degrees to provide a better future for their spouses, families, and their country.

Yes, we are a technological generation, but that doesn't mean we are materialistic.

OK, I will be the first to admit that our generation uses a lot of social media. We love taking Snapchats, tweeting hilarious tweets, and finding the perfect filters and captions for our latest Instagram post. However, we also use technology for so much more. 46% of Millennials say they use their technological devices for research and study. This goes hand in hand with education. We use our resources wisely and as a result, we have developed a different way of thinking and observing information. Bentley University even stated that Millennials were the future for Digital Media and its advancements.

We handle our finances online through mobile banking, buying insurance, downloading apps for coupons, and engaging in online trading. Technology has allowed us to share ideas freely and easily in a workplace. We use technology to research political occurrences and government happenings to stay educated on what is happening in the world around us.

Technology is everywhere. Instead of turning a shoulder, Millennials embrace it and the changes it brings to society.

They say we are selfish, but I believe we are compassionate.

The Huffington Post states that 61% of Millennials feel responsible for the state of the world and want to make a difference. Walden University states that 81% of Millennials have donated their time, goods, and services to a cause bigger than themselves.

Time and time again, we were taught in school to participate in community service and join as many extracurricular activities to make us a more well-rounded person, but yet we are the "selfish" generation. I've done mission work in another country, participated in many service trips in other states, completed hundreds of community service hours, and I am involved in everything I can possibly put myself in, but we are the "selfish" generation? One report completed by the National Conference on Citizenship even stated that Millennials were more likely to help their neighbors than Generation X.

So if community service and involvement are considered selfish acts to you, then let the Millennials be selfish. In the end, we are the ones making a difference in our neighborhoods, cities, and our country.

We are not entitled, but seeking responsibility.

Yes, we are a generation of confident, loud, outspoken people, but that does not mean we believe we are entitled. If you believe we are entitled, look at the Baby Boomer generation. National debt tripled and money was spent on economic programs that were for short-term gains rather than long-term stability. Now we are paying for their security and well-being without the proof that future generations will be doing that for us. So yes, we do voice our concerns, but our reason is validated, it is for our future anyways.

I'm not saying we are perfect, but neither were the generations before us. We are definitely a work in progress, so please bear with us, we are trying our best. We don't expect a participation ribbon, but we do expect your support like the previous generations gave you.

So please stop looking down upon us; instead, value our generation for what we can bring to the table and the future of America.

I am educated. I am hard-working. I am technological. I am compassionate. I am responsible. I am a Millennial.

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10 Things Someone Who Grew Up In A Private School Knows

The 10 things that every private school-goer knows all too well.


1. Uniforms

Plaid. The one thing that every private school-goer knows all too well. It was made into jumpers, skirts, shorts, scouts, hair ties, basically anything you could imagine, the school plaid was made into. You had many different options on what to wear on a normal day, but you always dreaded dress uniform day because of skirts and ballet flats. But it made waking up late for school a whole lot easier.

2. New people were a big deal

New people weren't a big thing. Maybe one or two a year to a grade, but after freshman year no one new really showed up, making the new kid a big deal.

3. You've been to school with most of your class since Kindergarten

Most of your graduating class has been together since Kindergarten, maybe even preschool, if your school has it. They've become part of your family, and you can honestly say you've grown up with your best friends.

4. You've had the same teachers over and over

Having the same teacher two or three years in a row isn't a real surprise. They know what you are capable of and push you to do your best.

5. Everyone knows everybody. Especially everyone's business.

Your graduating class doesn't exceed 150. You know everyone in your grade and most likely everyone in the high school. Because of this, gossip spreads like wildfire. So everyone knows what's going on 10 minutes after it happens.

6. Your hair color was a big deal

If it's not a natural hair color, then forget about it. No dyeing your hair hot pink or blue or you could expect a phone call to your parents saying you have to get rid of it ASAP.

7. Your school isn't like "Gossip Girl"

There is no eating off campus for lunch or casually using your cell phone in class. Teachers are more strict and you can't skip class or just walk right off of campus.

8. Sports are a big deal

Your school is the best of the best at most sports. The teams normally go to the state championships. The rest of the school that doesn't play sports attends the games to cheer on the teams.

9. Boys had to be clean-shaven, and hair had to be cut

If you came to school and your hair was not cut or your beard was not shaved, you were written up and made to go in the bathroom and shave or have the head of discipline cut your hair. Basically, if you know you're getting written up for hair, it's best just to check out and go get a hair cut.

10. Free dress days were like a fashion show

Wearing a school uniform every day can really drive you mad. That free dress day once a month is what you lived for. It was basically a fashion show for everyone, except for those upperclassmen who were over everything and just wore sweat pants.

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As A Victim Of Sexual Abuse, Painting '#MeToo' On A WWII Statue Is Taking The Movement TOO Far

There is a line you should never cross and that is it.


The famous picture of the sailor kissing a woman was taken right on V-J Day, when Japan surrendered to the U.S. in World War II. For decades it was seen as a representation of how excited and relieved everyone was at the end of the war.

The picture touched the hearts of thousands as you could feel the overwhelming amounts of joy that came from the snap of the camera. While the woman in the picture died back in 2016 due to a struggle with pneumonia, the sailor just recently died on Feb. 17, 2019 at the age of 95.

Most people saw it as both a heartbreak and heartwarming that the couple that was once photographed were now together.

Other people saw differently.

There is a statue made of the picture that resides in Sarasota, Florida. Police found early Tuesday morning of Feb. 19, two days after the sailor's death, that someone had spray-painted #MeToo on the statue's leg in bright red.

As a woman, I strongly encourage those who have been sexually assaulted/abused in any way shape or form, to voice themselves in the best way they can. To have the opportunity to voice what they went through without being afraid. As a woman who has also been a victim of sexual assault and has been quiet for many years...

This act of vandalism makes me sick.

While the woman that was kissed by the sailor was purely kissed on impulse, she had stated in an interview with 'The New York Times' that, "It wasn't a romantic event. It was just an event of 'thank God the war is over.'"

People were celebrating and, as a sailor, that man was so over the moon about the war being over that he found the nearest woman to celebrate with.

While I don't condone that situation, I understand both the reason behind it as well as the meaning behind the photo. I understand that, while it wasn't an intended kiss, it was a way of showcasing relief. To stick #MeToo on a statue of a representation of freedom is not the right way to bring awareness of sexual abuse.

It gives those the wrong idea of why the #MeToo movement was started. It started as a way for victims of sexual abuse to share their stories. To share with the world that they are not alone.

It helped me realize I wasn't alone.

But the movement, soon after it started, became a fad that turned wrong. People were using it in the wrong context and started using it negatively instead of as an outlet for women and men to share their horrific experiences of sexual assault.

That statue has been up for years. To wait until the sailor passed away was not only rude but entirely disrespectful. The family of that sailor is currently in mourning. On top of it, it's taking away from the meaning behind the photo/statue. World War II was one of the darkest, scariest events in — not just our American history — but the world's as well.

Sexual abuse is a touchy matter, I encourage everyone to stand up for what's right. But to vandalize a statue of one of the most relieving days in America's history is an act that was unnecessary and doesn't get the point of #MeToo across in the way it should. If anything, it's giving people a reason not to listen. To protest and bring attention to something, you want to gather the right attention.

This was not gathering the right attention.

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