I have had multiple encounters with men that have been quite horrible. Their "compliments" have been whistling and hissing. They have spit at me, called me fat, ugly, a slob, and garbage. It hurts to be called fat and ugly. I already have a voice inside my head that tells me so. I don't need a "man" to add on to the hurtful things. In my eyes, there are more men in this world that are disrespectful and childish than there are loving and respectful gentlemen.

Recently, I was called a fat slob. I'm actually not a slob. I'm the most clean and organized person. I'm not fat even though the voice in my head tells me that I am. I'm curvy af and I'm sorry if you can't handle that. Why don't you get to know me before you start calling me stupid crap like a fat slob.

I'm not afraid to "snap" at you for being disrespectful. I will let you know you are disgusting. I will tell you that your a disgrace to mankind. Don't tell me I'm being a b*tch. I'm standing up for myself. No woman should have to sit through a man being disrespectful to her. We deserve to be respected and loved. I am ALWAYS going to stand up for myself.

Now, I have a question for all the men out there. Why do you disrespect women? Why do you go to the trouble of calling a women names? Do you realize that you're hurting them? Do you realize that it is damaging to a woman's esteem? When will you stop? When will you just keep your mouth shut? When will you become a respectful gentlemen?

Think about the way you treat other human beings. Would you treat any of your family members like that?