Have you watched the movie, Eat Pray and Love starring Julia Roberts? This movie is a kind of exploration of a woman’s desire to travel the parts of world she wants and to explore herself also emotionally, spiritually and coming to face to love again of which she is afraid that she would loses the balance again she has established in the movie.
She doesn’t want to go into emotional trauma she has been through her first marriage and then falling in love with a guy younger to her age and not receiving the same love as she has given to this guy who practices mediation and into acting.
Then the protagonist comes to India to find peace instead find mosquitoes and a mad man who calls her grocery is behind her every time coercing her what she does while at the end open himself to her and helps her also to open up and accept what life offers and hope for the best.
The Italy part is one of the best in the movie where she abundantly enjoys herself eating pizza and learning the language and making new friends and making the wealth of unforgettable moments that she cherishes.
Tutti, the old man, one of the finest characters in the movie who is funny and led her to find herself and shows the path of life again to the protagonist. In Bali, where she finally meets the love of her life to whom in the starting she is hesitant to love and then finally waits for him at the boat.
The movie is about finding balance and then losing it again if it is worth losing. The whole is all about this going through storm and then looking for breeze. We all do it for whole life this balance and imbalance game. But what we are looking for is rest, which we don’t find until or unless we experience everything whatever we want to.
Finding complete rest is all about finding yourself and doing what you want to do rather than limiting yourself. Life is all about going through every phase of it and not saying yourself back that you haven’t experienced yet what you want to.
Marriage is same like this beautiful movie; finding balance if going through imbalance. Here we are going to tell you how you can make a perfect balance in your married life and how to keep it always exciting.
And there are only a few secrets of it-
- You should not treat yourself like husband and wife while like girlfriend and boyfriend.
- Do whatever you want to do, talk, travel and love and kisses.
- Open yourself up to your partner and enjoy life as you want to and get through balance and imbalance of life and find new aims and fulfill your ambitions.
That is how I have kept a perfect balance in my life. I am not going to tell you a how-to-guide because there is none. Just a year back I celebrated my wife birthday in Bali where the film was shot and it felt like going through movie again. It was awesome and I said some beautiful lines for my wife which I took from an awesome collection of heart touching birthday messages for wife from a website.
We also visited to a Tutti where we showed our palms for our fortune and he said it is all love in our life. Hence my friend; eat, pray and love; that is what life is for rather than getting into any depression and despair.
