There is something to be said about loving life. Sometimes it can be hard to find that place inside of you to love every part of it, but I think touching on not only the best parts of life but also the hardest ones, can form a well-rounded outlook. I know, trust me, it is hard to feel sometimes like your life is going exactly how you planned it. You may even find yourself wishing for something different or even want something to never end.
There are so many amazing aspects of life, but for me, which many of you may agree, some of the best parts consist of the memories you make with family, friends (new and old), relationships, and your own personal growth. No matter how small or big these are, hold them close to your heart, they are times to treasure, they can never be taken away from you.
There are moments in your lifetime, that you will have to face things, whether it be fears, challenges, people, illness or even death. These are nothing to feel like "you can't," but more of a "you know what, this is very difficult, but I will preserve, and I will be stronger because of it." Moments. I have had plenty of these times in my life and I know more to come, but I will always be a better version of myself because of them. I look at these times, as blessings, oddly enough. Blessings for the simple fact that they make life, your own.
Another important part of the imperfect life, and loving it, for what it is, is, your feelings. Accept your feelings and let yourself really feel them, it's healthy. You should always be connected to your emotions, it's so important. They are what make different times in your life vivid and authentic. You can't control them, and you shouldn't feel like you need to, let yourself live. I tune into my feelings so much because they are a huge part of me, and I wouldn't trade it for the world.
Life is imperfect, there are countless good and bad times. I always say to my friends, how hard it is for me to imagine a world without the bad, but just good. Whether you believe in God or another higher power, I can't help but feel that if bad things weren't placed in this world, how could anyone, even yourself, appreciate the good in this lifetime, if there was no bad?
I love the imperfections, so much. I would go crazy if there wasn't any, to be honest. The freedom to accept, forgive, learn, and grow is such a gift.
Learn to be more than okay with imperfections, we all aren't perfect creatures, and it's wonderful.
Have faith in it all, your journey, will take you many different paths, some that you will enjoy, some you may not, but never forget to continue to love and trust that you are growing, even if steps are taken backward, it's life.
Remember, you are loved.
xx
Bell
