10 Life Lessons I Learned From Being a Camp Counselor

10 Life Lessons I Learned From Being a Camp Counselor

It's one of the most rewarding jobs you can have.

For anyone who has ever been a camp counselor, you know how much it changes your life. For anyone considering it, I urge you to do it. You'll have the opportunity to change lives, relive the best aspects of childhood, and you'll learn a lot about yourself and those around you. Here are ten lessons I have learned from my time as a summer camp counselor:

1. Be flexible.

At both camp and in life, things may not go as anticipated. It's always good to have a backup plan, or at the very least, it's good to be able to laugh it off.

2. Give new things a chance (and if you didn't like it the first time, give it a second chance).

You may have not liked a certain food, activity, or even a person at first, but it's all worth a second shot. Don't call it quits on something or someone from one experience - you may really like it the second time around.

3. You get out what you put in.

People will tell you this all the time, but it's absolutely true. Even if you start out faking a smile, you'll usually find out that your smile is completely genuine in the end. Go the extra mile and it will come back to you.

4. Teamwork makes all the difference.

Being a camp counselor is a hard and stressful job. Whether it comes to getting your campers to go to sleep or creating a new game to keep people entertained on a rainy day, it's a much easier job to work with people rather than doing it alone.

5. Getting enough sleep is incredibly important.

It makes or breaks your entire day. I know it's hard, but set aside time to take a nap when you have a break or forfeit a night of hanging out with your friends. You'll have a lot more patience (and fun) when you're well rested.

6. You can learn a lot from kids.

Sometimes, kids can say incredibly deep, thoughtful, and poignant things. Don't dismiss someone just because they're younger than you; sometimes, the youngest ones are the most insightful.

7. Don't take yourself too seriously.

Let yourself relive the excitement of being a kid. Don't think of being a camp counselor as "work." Instead, look as it as an opportunity to go to camp and have a good time while making a little money.

8. Getting dirty isn't always a bad thing.

Learn to embrace the pool hair, the sweat, and the dirt. Accept being covered in sunscreen, bug spray, and paint. It's actually pretty refreshing to not have to worry about putting on makeup or looking your best every single day.

9. Pushing yourself pays off.

Being a camp counselor is by no means an easy job. It's stressful, tiring, and can be pretty tough. But when you push through, you'll realize that all the hard work is really rewarding.

10. Work can be fun.

Sometimes, you'll be amazed that you get paid to be at camp and hanging out with kids all day. Letting yourself loosen up, open your mind, kick back and relax, and have fun is one of the best things that I learned from being a counselor.

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I'm A Woman And You Can't Convince Me Breastfeeding In Public Is OK In 2019

Sorry, not sorry.


Lately, I have seen so many people going off on social media about how people shouldn't be upset with mothers breastfeeding in public. You know what? I disagree.

There's a huge difference between being modest while breastfeeding and just being straight up careless, trashy and disrespectful to those around you. Why don't you try popping out a boob without a baby attached to it and see how long it takes for you to get arrested for public indecency? Strange how that works, right?

So many people talking about it bring up the point of how we shouldn't "sexualize" breastfeeding and seeing a woman's breasts while doing so. Actually, all of these people are missing the point. It's not sexual, it's just purely immodest and disrespectful.

If you see a girl in a shirt cut too low, you call her a slut. If you see a celebrity post a nude photo, you call them immodest and a terrible role model. What makes you think that pulling out a breast in the middle of public is different, regardless of what you're doing with it?

If I'm eating in a restaurant, I would be disgusted if the person at the table next to me had their bare feet out while they were eating. It's just not appropriate. Neither is pulling out your breast for the entire general public to see.

Nobody asked you to put a blanket over your kid's head to feed them. Nobody asked you to go feed them in a dirty bathroom. But you don't need to basically be topless to feed your kid. Growing up, I watched my mom feed my younger siblings in public. She never shied away from it, but the way she did it was always tasteful and never drew attention. She would cover herself up while doing it. She would make sure that nothing inappropriate could be seen. She was lowkey about it.

Mindblowing, right? Wait, you can actually breastfeed in public and not have to show everyone what you're doing? What a revolutionary idea!

There is nothing wrong with feeding your baby. It's something you need to do, it's a part of life. But there is definitely something wrong with thinking it's fine to expose yourself to the entire world while doing it. Nobody wants to see it. Nobody cares if you're feeding your kid. Nobody cares if you're trying to make some sort of weird "feminist" statement by showing them your boobs.

Cover up. Be modest. Be mindful. Be respectful. Don't want to see my boobs? Good, I don't want to see yours either. Hard to believe, I know.

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What If Periods Were Treated As A Good Thing?

We need to re-evaluate the way we think about about periods.


Alright, no one kill me as I say this next line but periods are a good thing for us women. Yes, it involves some serious pain, and moodiness, and acne, and exhaustion BUT it identifies you as a woman-the strongest creature on this planet (and not just because we can make it through that type of pain).

Our periods gives us a chance to embrace what it means to be a woman. Even though I personally dread the pain on my period, it is the time of the month when I feel like can embrace my womanhood and take a bit more care of myself than normal.

One of the best things about women is our compassionate, giving, and tender hearts. This is what makes us distinct from the world. For 25 days out of the month, we love our friends and families, hand out smiles through campus, show up for our friends when they need us, listen and console. Tell me when was the last time you did this for yourself? The last time you had compassion for yourself? Treated yourself gently?

This is the purpose of resting during your period. You get to intentionally focus on what you need in order to return back into the world, delivering your beautiful heart and soul to the people around you who are blessed to have it in their lives.

Now for me, back pain, cramps, moodiness, anger, and exhaustion, are specific to the first two days of this wonderful ordeal. All I want to do is lie in bed for those 48 hours and rest.

But noooooooo, I gotta keep going, keep pushing, getting things done. I think the time of our periods should be a lot more sacred week in our lives than it is now.

Currently, we see it creeping towards us over the horizon and when it hits, we just power right through it. But our bodies are asking us to slow the heck down. Our bodies are showing us that we can let go of what we don't need anymore. So resting and rejuvenating and reflecting can show you what your heart no longer needs to be lugging around either and put some creativity and life back into your system.

Here are some tips on how to embrace what our periods are trying to show us:

1. Tell your friends and family ahead of time. 

You know when you see that friend walk through the classroom door for at 8:00 am looking like she could just maybe kill someone and you immediately know "it" has begun?

Or you schedule a dinner with a friend to work out some small conflicts in your friendship and then you just start crying and getting super emotional and your friend is staring at you with some definite confusion?

Yup unfortunately been there both times. I have now made it a point to tell my close friends (and family when I am home) that my period is coming and there's nothing anyone can do to stop it so everyone just hold onto your hats. This doesn't give me permission to act any way I want but does let them know that I am going to need some space and gentleness and rest.

2. Try to get work done before your period starts.  

If you have a bunch of projects and homework coming up during the first few days of your period, get it done beforehand. I cannot tell you how much this helps bring the stress level down and gives me permission to rest more and talk more kindly to myself without the regular chatter of to-do lists in my head.

3. Take care of yourself. 

Take an essential oil bath. Give yourself a foot massage. Have a deep conversation with a friend. JOURNAL. Take a walk at sunset. Color mandalas. Paint a canvas. Watch an inspirational movie. Paint your nails. Decorate your room. Play some piano. Read a book. Bake something delicious (or in my case, burn something delicious).

The purpose is just to carve out some time for yourself to slow down and do some reflecting.

4. Give yourself permission to be emotional. 

Many people think of expressing emotions as a weakness, especially if you are a woman. You know how they say: "Oh she's emotional so she must be on her period." No more of that, please. Emotions are powerful so if you want to cry, then cry. When you cry, scientifically, your body experiences a release of tension and stress. These tears are a gift and they help unburden your heart.

On your period, please rest. Honor your womanhood. Do not be ashamed of it. Yes, there's a ridiculous amount of never-ending stuff, but do let your heart and body take a break. You are worth taking care of and you are enough, just as you are.

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