Every girl deserves someone who makes her feel like the most beautiful girl in the world, flowers on her doorstep, someone who she can be herself around, and most importantly, makes her happy. I have seen many girls who deserve better than the guy that they are with. They let this one person consume their lives, as if they do not know how to say no or walk away. Why do they stay? The thought of starting over is dreadful, and all that time seems like a waste. In their head, they think that no one else will love them again. This is their comfort zone and seems impossible to get out of.
It takes just a minute to realize that what is in front of you is not enough. Do not take any less than what you deserve. Yes, sometimes us girls have high standards when it comes to relationships. We want the ground that we walk on to be worshipped and to be treated like the princess we are. That is okay to have those thoughts. In life, we will go through heartbreak after heartbreak, and it is the absolute worst feeling in the world. We constantly go through that until we meet “the one” for us. What many people do not realize is that heartbreak is a good thing. It is a realization that God has something else planned for you, something better coming along. It does not matter how many times you experience heartbreak because the past is the past. What matters is what is happening at his very moment.
Before you can love someone else, you have to learn to love yourself. Yes I know, you probably hear this a million times but actually think about it. Never let someone define your worth because only you can do that. If anything, your person is supposed to encourage you to do better and push you to follow your dreams. That person has to believe in everything that you do, not tell you what to do. That is one thing that I see in some relationships. We let one person get to us that we forget who we are. Once you learn to learn yourself, everything else will follow.
We should not be in our comfort zone because life, as we all know, is not easy. If something is easy, then there is something wrong. Love, relationships, and commitment are not easy things to grasp. To be out of your comfort zone is the feeling of chills, adrenaline, excitement, being nervous, and always on your toes. It is being able to be comfortable with someone, as in be yourself but always having that feeling of adventure and butterflies in your stomach. People stay in their comfort zone because that’s what they know best, they feel obligated to stay, or they are scared to leave. You should not feel forced to stay. Do not forget, you deserve the absolute best. Know your worth and learn to be honest to yourself. The most courageous act is being able to think for yourself.
Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
