Letter To The Friend That Uses Me When It's Convenient
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Letter To The Friend That Uses Me When It's Convenient

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Letter To The Friend That Uses Me When It's Convenient
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Dear Friend,

Do you remember how we meet? How we became friend all those many years back? Do you remember the endless laughs, fights, sleepovers, and dinners that we have had though out the years? Remember when we were inseparable and our parents had to tell us that we needed a break from each other. Well, I think you may have seemed to forget all that. But, that’s okay!

It’s okay because now I realized I have hit a point in my life. A point where I’m over it. I’m ready to start over and exit you from my life. You have moved on in your life, so now it’s time I do the same. The fact that I got left behind, doesn’t make me mad because things like this happen all the time. It just upsets me because I’ve realize what our friendship really meant to you. Just years of wasted time.

I’ve learned I need to be friends with the people that want me in their life. The ones that are in the pictures with me, not taking them for me. I need to be friends with the people that respect me and treat me how I deserve to be treated. Where the friendship is not “one-sided”. Friends with people that want to share their live with me. We might always agree with each other but we respect each other. Finding friends that stick with you in life, is hard and rare. Thank you for teaching me a valuable lesson on how not to be a shitty friend.

Sincerely,

Not Your Convenient Friend No More

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