Dear the amazing person reading this,
Whether it is boys, family, personal, or just because, I promise you maybe not today, but one day it will all be okay. Life is not fair sometimes, and people can be mean. Obstacles can be thrown you're way even when you aren't prepared. We often forget how to act when we are caught in situations. On the outside looking in we never understand. Remind yourself that tomorrow is going to come and we can choose to accept what is and move on or we can drone on what we can't change. The past happened, the present is here and the future will come. Remember, you can't change the past so do not let your emotions effect what the present is like, and never worry about what has yet to come.
"The turning point in the process of growing up is when you discover the core of strength within you that survives all hurt." ~Max Lerner
Allow people in, let them in and accept their comfort or shoulder to cry on. Don't ever doubt yourself and remember to realize not everything will go your way. I often forget to realize that not everything is about me and not everything will come in my favor. I believe that we never truly understand a situation until we experienced it and have truly expressed that emotion or who is going through it. Whether it be loss, heartbreak, fights, etc. To understand the pain or the heartache will allow you to become stronger after are.
When you think you hit rock bottom, remember that it still is not the end, and you will come back from this. I am here to tell you, someone will be able to relate, you are not alone. "My life is over." Try not to say that, because it seems over in the moment, but you need to stay happy and cry if you need to but it will be okay. We chase happiness and chase things that don't need to be chased. We over analyze situations and think too far into a simple thing.
We forget that not everything is serious and not everything is permanent. If we never had problems in life we would never learn the importance of it all. Tell yourself you will be okay, keep the positivity up, and never let your head down. You are wanted, you are loved, you are needed, and you are thought about, remember that. It will all be okay.
For better or for worse, things change, and it will all work out in the end. You are in control, if you want something different, change what you can and have faith. Never forget, there are better boys, better days, better situations. Just remember to always smile and live your life. It will all be okay. Have a day. :)
Sincerely,
Tori
