A Letter To My High School Girls

A Letter To My High School Girls

To the girls who I made my high school memories with.

A Letter to my high school girls,

To the girls who I made my high school memories with,

Thank you for being just as nervous as me at the beginning of freshman year. Thank you for trying new things with me and making a fool of yourself with me. For getting lost in the seemingly enormous new building and for sitting with me at lunch.

Thank you for studying with me during midterms and finals week even though that never actually meant studying.

Thank you for always embracing spirit week with me. Some of my favorite pictures of us include ridiculous pajamas or head to toe school colors.

Thank you for always being there. Whether it was a football game, a lazy winter night, or a day of spring shopping, thank you for always being willing to do something fun.

Thank you for always being down for a day in Boston. I know it was always my go to suggestion, so thank you for always accompanying me downtown. Whether it was for lunch, a day of shopping, or a quick Georgetown cupcake, thank you for always saying yes.

Thank you for always asking me what I wanted from Starbucks when you went during school hours. You saved the day over and over with your midday coffee deliveries.

Thank you for letting me spend the night at your house, even if that meant sharing a bed or one of us sleeping on the floor. Late night movies always turned into late morning slumber parties.

Thank you for coming to every high school event with me. Whether it was screaming at a football or a hockey game or sitting through the talent show together, it was always better when it was all of us.

Thank you for always being willing to stay up all night to talk to me when I needed it.

Thank you for always sharing your clothes with me. Whether it was a sock that I forgot before track practice or a dress for homecoming, thank you for always leaving your closet door open.

Thank you for letting me come to all of your events and games and performances. I have such great memories of watching my girls play their game or dance in a recital.

Thank you for loving my crazy family. For coming to birthday parties and family dinners and always saying hi to my parents. They love you girls too.

Thank you for all of the summer beach trips. Thank you for ice cream nights and dinner dates and aimless drives.

Thank you for dress shopping with me, whether it was for sophomore homecoming, junior cruise, senior prom, or a graduation party.

Thank you for always being willing to dance and sing with me, whether it was in the car or on the dance floor.

Thank you for savoring every moment of senior year with me. I have such specific memories with each of you.

Thank you for always encouraging me to chase my dreams, even if that meant leaving you.

Thank you for still answering the phone when I call, for sending me notes in the mail, for missing me just as much as I miss you.

I am proud of each of you. I am thankful for all of you. Thank you for setting the bar high for friendships. You have shown me how to have fun. I love you and I miss you, but I know each of you is doing the thing you were meant to do. Here’s to new friendships and old memories.

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To The Parent Who Chose Addiction

Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.


When I was younger I resented you, I hated every ounce of you, and I used to question why God would give me a parent like you. Not now. Now I see the beauty and the blessings behind having an addict for a parent. If you're reading this, it isn't meant to hurt you, but rather to thank you.

Thank you for choosing your addiction over me.

Throughout my life, you have always chosen the addiction over my programs, my swim meets or even a simple movie night. You joke about it now or act as if I never questioned if you would wake up the next morning from your pill and alcohol-induced sleep, but I thank you for this. I thank you because I gained a relationship with God. The amount of time I spent praying for you strengthened our relationship in ways I could never explain.

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Thank you for giving me a stronger bond with our family.

The amount of hurt and disappointment our family has gone through has brought us closer together. I have a relationship with Nanny and Pop that would never be as strong as it is today if you had been in the picture from day one. That in itself is a blessing.

Thank you for showing me how to love.

From your absence, I have learned how to love unconditionally. I want you to know that even though you weren't here, I love you most of all. No matter the amount of heartbreak, tears, and pain I've felt, you will always be my greatest love.

Thank you for making me strong.

Thank you for leaving and for showing me how to be independent. From you, I have learned that I do not need anyone else to prove to me that I am worthy of being loved. From you, I have learned that life is always hard, but you shouldn't give into the things that make you feel good for a short while, but should search for the real happiness in life.

Most of all, thank you for showing me how to turn my hurt into motivation.

I have learned that the cycle of addiction is not something that will continue into my life. You have hurt me more than anyone, but through that hurt, I have pushed myself to become the best version of myself.

Thank you for choosing the addiction over me because you've made me stronger, wiser, and loving than I ever could've been before.

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To My Graduating Big, Thank You For Being The Older Sister I Never Had

Thank you for being you, and helping me be the best me I can be.


I've always been the older sister to my own sister and even my cousins. I grew up looking to my mom and my aunts for how to act but never had an older girl closer to my age to look up to and learn from. Flash forward to 2017, and I joined my sorority. I did so much research and knew at some point I would get to go through Big/Little, and have a big sister to call my own for however many years she would be at the university.

Boy did I luck out when I met you, my amazing big.

You came into my life and we've been inseparable since. You listen to my life problems, whether it's fear of doing poorly in school or my latest updates on the guy who ghosted me (and there's been A LOT of those this semester). You've been there when I wasn't at my best and gave me the support I needed to get through my hard times and celebrated with me through the good times. We're both kind souls, and people tend to use that a lot, which we don't deserve, but we put up with it anyway.

Some girls have bigs who genuinely suck, and I am so sorry that they got stuck with someone who doesn't really care about them like they thought they would. I'm glad we have such a real relationship that will last us through the tests of time. You're going to be a bridesmaid in my wedding, and our kids will be best friends. It was all pre-written in our destinies that you would be my big and I'd be your little. The sorority brought us together and I can't thank it enough.

I don't know what I'm going to do without you next fall when I step onto campus as a senior and you'll be off adulting. You're a core part of my life and instead of being a few minutes walk from me, you'll be very far away. Phone calls and Facetime will have to become my best friend instead of hanging out in your dorm or the dining hall.

You're such an inspiration. I'm so proud of how much you do every day, and how you always keep morale up even when you're exhausted. You put effort into everything you do and try your best no matter what. You're going to achieve such great things in the future, and I'm glad I'll be able to watch you blossom outside of college.

To future doughnut and ice cream dates, where we can eat our hearts out and gossip like we always do. I gained a sister and a best friend all in one, and I'm not ready for you to leave me. I know you're ready to start your next chapter in life asap.

Thank you for being you, and helping me be the best me I can be.

Love you,

Your Little

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