Dear Nick,

I am so happy for you that you’ve (finally) found a college you like that also allows you to continue your basketball career. Your college has gained not only a great basketball player and student, but a great man as well. I know you’re so excited to start college and you’re going to do great things. Before you start this new chapter, I have some advice I’d love to give to you.

Do not expect to find your best friend the first day. While yes, during the first few weeks you’ll meet tons of new people and befriend many of them, you don’t become someone’s instant best friend. You’ve been friends with your buddies from home for years and it’s going to be impossible to replicate that friendship in a few weeks. Give it time and be patient and you’ll make an amazing group of friends. Proceed with caution when deciding who to trust, some really do care while others are just nosey. Watch the company you keep. People will associate you with your friends and that may not always be a good thing. Be careful when making friends, but keep the true ones close and treat them well.

Do not think you are invincible, because you are not. Yes, it can happen to you and it may. I know I don’t need to tell you, but make good choices. And I know you’re thinking I’m the one to talk, but please take this advice. I don’t ever want something to happen to you because of a stupid thing you or your friends did. Peer pressure exists in college, don’t give into it.

Mom will miss you, give her a call. We all know you’re not the best communicator, but everyone at home will miss you and wonder how you’re doing, so shoot them a text every now and then and they’ll really appreciate it.

Never be afraid to ask for help. You know I’m only a half hour away and I’ll always be here for you. Don’t ever hesitate to call any of your family for help because we all love you and want the best for you. If you’re on the verge of a breakdown, call me and I’ll talk you through it. If you’re frustrated with your team, call Dad and he’ll coach you through it. If you just need someone to talk to, you know Mom’s always there. I just want you to know help or a listening ear is just a phone call away, and you’re never bothering us or being annoying.

I’m so excited for you to start this next chapter in your life. I know you’ll do amazing things in the next four years on and off the court and I can’t wait for it. I want you to know I’m always here for you. I’ll be here to always forgive you, to be a helping hand, or a listening ear. I love you, good luck at Rosemont, and remember I’m only a half hour away!

Always, your big sis,

Kyla