Dear ladies,
Most people find their spouses at college, which is how my parents met. Then there are some who don't dabble in relationships until after college, which is fine too. In fact, that might be a great idea. Really, is it so terrible to not get a "ring before spring?" What about the freedom -- only having yourself to take care of? There are many reasons why it is a-OK to not be in a relationship.
Responsibilities of a girlfriend.
Having a man in your life is a big responsibility and you have to pretty much memorize their schedules. It's like being a secretary! Birthdays, anniversary, job schedules, and more, and let's face it, the women have to memorize most of the schedule and important dates. What is the fun in having to memorize someone else's doings? I mean, when the time comes and you find that someone it is easy to get into that routine, but for now it is OK to be single (and ready to eat Pringles).
Cuddling?
Yes, one of the best parts of a relationship is cuddling, but can't a man be replaced by a "man's best friend," or maybe a cat, or your best friend? Dogs and cats are much fluffier than a man and your best gal pal can help you get through problems maybe just as nicely too.
Freedom, freedom, freedom! (Sing it!)
Being single is a GOOD thing! (You can say that out loud if you want to.) I go to a Christian college and a lot of people that I know are single, and they are happy as a clam! We hang out, watch movies, and go on shopping trips that men probably wouldn't want to go on. Going out with the girls and not having to worry about calling your boyfriend is a good thing; when the time comes you can take care of them and still hang out with your friends. Another perk of being single is that you can have girl roommates for a little while longer! Have sleepovers, do each others hair and nails, make cake pops...you can just chill with your college friends and can rent a house together! Part-ay all the time!
Waiting for the ring?
There are many people at a Christian college that are in relationships as well as single, and some of them want to get a ring before spring. But what is the fun in that?! Why not enjoy each other's company a little while longer? There is certainly no rush. Why not wait till the end of senior year or just wait a little while after college and travel, or just be together.
Singles and people that are in relationships are waiting for their turn to get "ring before spring" action. But, really, it's not a huge deal to not get one. Just live life as it is and wait until that special someone comes into your life that you just can't live without. Maybe you already have that someone. Just being together and living life together without the pressures of weddings or engagements is nice for a while; you don't have to rush things. Coming from someone who is in a relationship, I would take life and the process one day at a time and savor every minute that I have with my love. Singles, no te preocupes ("don't worry"), savor the time you have to yourself and with your friends.
