Dear Little Bit,
I can’t wait to meet you. You’re probably already thinking about recruitment. So am I! Just as you eagerly await meeting all the sororities, I cannot wait for you to find your home in my sorority and begin your journey in sorority life. You are going to have a blast! And after recruitment, I can’t wait to get to know you more, and when you finally turn around at big little reveal, there’s a few things I promise to do.
I promise to strive to be as good of a Big as my Big is to me.
I think I have the best example of a Big possible! Because I have the best Big ever, I will strive to be just like her in everything I do. I could not have made it this far without my Big, and I hope to be that person for you. I’m super excited to spoil you, craft for you and share my favorite Netflix shows with you. At this time last year, I had no idea what I was in for. Joining a sorority was barely even a thought of mine, and I didn't know what kind of an impact it would make on my life. When I think of all the reasons why I love my sorority, the top of the list is always my big.
I promise to laugh until we cry, and be your shoulder to cry on.
That was really cheesy … but really! I promise to be there in your saddest moments, and your happiest. Stupid boys come and go, but as your Big I’ll be here through it all. We're going to have millions of inside jokes and stories to tell, and we'll have memories together that will last a lifetime! I can guarantee there will be tears ... both from laughing until we cry and the real kind of tears. Either way, I promise to be here no matter what.
I promise to guide you through the ins and outs of Greek life.
Advice is my middle name. I’ve been there, I’ve done that (not to long ago). I’ll be your teacher about all things Greek life. I’ll tell you what mixers are like, which guys to stay away from or which ones are the real gentlemen, or what to wear to meetings or new member social. I’ll find you a tutor for biology or math (I’m not good at those), or help you write your English papers. I’ll forgive you for being awkward around fraternity guys and tell you not to beat yourself up over it (I may or may not being speaking from prior experience…)
I promise to never stop being your Big!
From the day you become my little, to the rest of your life, I will be there for you! The Big/Little bond is one that survives countless relationships, seasons of life and can never be broken! Let’s still be besties when we’re old ladies on the front porch sipping on sweet tea. I’ll be “your person” as long as you’ll be mine.
After saying all of this, I feel kind of creepy, but maybe one day you'll actually get to read this.
