An Open Letter To My Best Friend
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An Open Letter To My Best Friend

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An Open Letter To My Best Friend
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Dear Best Friend,

The summer before college starts is definitely a crazy one, and I have been experiencing that first-hand. Between signing up for classes, buying supplies and trying not to stress about who my roommate will be, I've forgotten what is truly important during this time. My best friend and I have known each other since we were five, and we've been inseparable ever since. But now, as I go off to college and she moves to another state, we will have to deal with being separated for much longer than we're used to. I'm afraid of what that means, but I've promised myself I won't forget to stay connected with the person who means so much to me.

Thank you for being the first person I even considered a friend. Kindergarten was tough for every kid, but you somehow made it easier when you actually played with me at recess. Thank you for always being someone I felt comfortable enough to talk to, about anything and everything. The amount of things I've told you that I haven't told anyone else will always amaze me. Our conversations range from boy bands and crushes to issues with our families, but no matter what it is we're talking about I know you're always listening.

Thank you for sticking by my side even when I'm doing something stupid. Everyone has bad ideas, and I'm grateful that you've been there for me even when I'm making terrible decisions. Thank you for coming with me to concerts, inviting me to parties and letting me sleep over your house more times than I can count. I've always felt like part of your family, and that's something I'll never forget. Thank you for staying up with me on FaceTime until ridiculous hours, for helping me face my fears, and for always answering me when I need you.

Thank you for doing your best to make sure we still spend time together. Going to different high schools was difficult enough, but it somehow made our friendship stronger. Now, though, I can't help but feel afraid. I'm going to college, and you've moved to a different state, making it feel as if we're suddenly a million miles apart. I'm going to miss being able to walk five minutes and be at your front door.

I'm going to miss our nightly runs to the convenient store to get slush, and of course all the times we've explored our hometown. I know that you want to stay friends just as much as I do, and that does help make me feel better. Thank you for inviting me to your new house, and letting me explore your new town with you. I'm already looking forward to showing you around my campus in the fall.

I know now that no matter what happens, we will always be best friends. Of course we will both be making new friends in the coming year. We will date people, and go to parties without each other and find concerts to enjoy with new groups of people. I'm not going to lie; I will be a little bit jealous of those people. But I know we will still see each other whenever we can, and we'll talk every day when it's possible.

So thank you for diminishing my fears, and continuing to the best person I know. We may be starting different journeys soon, but I know we'll continue our own adventure together, and that is what's important. I love you Best Friend, and I hope we never drift apart. Thank you for being the best best friend I've ever had.

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