A Letter To Boys For 2017
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A Letter To Boys For 2017

Stop being Idiots

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A Letter To Boys For 2017
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Stop being idiots.

Seriously though. There are so many amazing girls out there. But you guys miss them because you want something quick and "easy".

My question is why?

What do you get from this? A fun night sure. But then you go your separate ways. And you're stuck wooing another girl the next night.

How is this fun?

Sure, I get it. Sometimes it's nice to be single. You can flirt with whoever, and more importantly, do whatever you want. You don't have to "check in" with anyone else. Don't worry, I honestly get that. It's very nice at times.

HOWEVER

This gives you no excuse to use girls like they're property. Whatever happened to chivalry, or being a gentleman? Believe me, when you hook up with a different girl each night, people begin to notice. And in all honesty, its gross. If you keep this up, you'll begin to push away the girl that could be perfect for you.

Sure, call me a hopeless romantic. Or just naive. But I think that it's better to be in a committed relationship than to be with a different person each night.

Maybe I'm wrong. But I don't know.

Just think about it...

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