A Letter To My Random Roommate Turned Best Friend

A Letter To My Random Roommate Turned Best Friend

Some friends become roommates. Some roommates become friends.

So here we are as college seniors. Whoa, where did the time go?! It feels like yesterday you walked into Honors 251 and we met for the first time. That sounds like the start of a love story. It kind of is! First off, I just want to thank you for being the best roommate I have ever had, for all the laughs, insides jokes, and boy advice a girl could ask for. The craziest part is that we went from not knowing each other to being so close. We got even closer after we had to part our roommate-ing ways. I am not sure about random roommate statistics, but I feel like we beat the odds. We are the exception, not the rule.

I just keep thinking about the fact that we were randomly matched up and such the perfect pair. I didn’t think we had a lot in common, but that didn’t stop me from getting to know you or wanting to do so. I think us both having relationships with Christ really helped as well. I have no doubt that God gave me you for a reason. I guess all I am really trying to say is THANK YOU!

Thank you for being the best study buddy. Whether it was studying in our dorm, in a random building, or in the basement of library in the really hot room or when we didn’t see sunlight for a whole day, we always could be productive. Maybe there was the time we played the cup song all afternoon... Thanks for also taking breaks with me, whether it was ice skating, going to buy food, or going to a soccer game. Thanks for helping me laugh when times got tough. You got to see everything I ruined my freshman year: the hair dryer, the sweater, the jacket…just to name a few. You made me laugh about it instead of allowing me to cry over something so stupid. But thanks for crying with me over more important things. I will leave that one alone. Thank you for giving me and being a part of some of my best college stories: medication, appendages in the mail, all of our random lunch companions, and chasing after the college shuttle in the freezing cold. Thank you for going on more dates than I ever have with boys in real life. Thank you for laughing with me every day, especially at not funny things or very funny things. Thank you for being a person that made me feel okay that my freshman year wasn’t that great. Thank you for being my first college friend and not one of those ones that goes away (remember Matt from orientation?) You’re the real MVP. And thank you for being my roommate after we couldn’t be roommates. That one time you came and ate pizza with me because boys are lame was the best!

The truth is my college experience was far from typical, but you helped make it so amazing! You made my transition to college easy. You made my freshman year unforgettable. There is no one I would have rather ate ice cream with three times a day and gained the freshman 15 with.

When it comes down to it, I would have never imagined a random rooming situation could turn into something so wonderful! There are so many times as a senior I wish I could go back to the days of eating chicken nuggets and mac n cheese while watching 8 Simple Rules with you. Seriously, thank you for everything! I couldn’t have done it without you!


Your Random Roommate Turned Best Friend

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Dear Mom, Now That I'm Older

A letter to the woman who made me the woman I am today.

Dear Mom,

Now that I'm older, I definitely appreciate you a lot more than I did as a kid. I appreciate the little things, from the random text messages to constantly tagging me on Facebook in your "funny" photos and sending me pins of stuff I like on Pinterest. Now that I'm older, I can look back and realize that everything I am is all because of you. You've made me strong but realize it's okay to cry. You've shown me how a mother gives everything to her children to give them a better life than she had, even when she's left with nothing. And, most importantly you've taught me to never give up and without this, I would not be where I am today.

Mom, now that I'm older, I realize that you're the best friend I'm ever going to have. You cheer me on when I try new things and support me in deciding to be whatever person I want to be. Thank you for never telling me I can't do something and helping me figure out ways to be the best woman I can be. Your love for me is unconditional. They say true, unconditional love can only come from God, but mom, I think you're a pretty close second.

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Now that I'm older, I don't get to see you as much. But not seeing you as much just makes the times I do get to see you the absolute best, and I look forward to it every time. Now that I'm older, I'm not going to live at home. But, I promise to always come back because I know the door is always open. Your house is always going to be my home, and no other place is going to be the same.

Now that I'm older, I realize how much I miss you taking care of me. I miss you making me dinner, making sure I was doing well in school, and taking me to endless appointments. I miss you waking me up for school and then waking me up again because I didn't listen the first time.

But, Mom, now that I'm older, I can see all that you've done for me. I can look back and see how big of a brat I was but you still loved me (and let me live) anyways. I can understand why you did certain things and frankly, you're one bada** of a woman.

To have you as my mom and my best friend has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. So, Mom, now that I'm older, thank you, for everything.


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Visiting Your Friends At Different Colleges Is Worth The Drive

Learning about the lives my friends are living at other schools is extremely interesting.


When I went to college, many of my friends went to different schools. Some of us went to the same college, some went to other in-state schools and some even went out-of-state. If you are ever bored and are thinking about spending the weekend with your friend at their college, I recommend doing it!

As a student at the University of Florida, I already know the best places to eat, party and relax in Gainesville. During my time here, I have met so many new people and have experienced so many new things. But, sometimes I forget that my friends are living their own lives at different schools, as well.

When I went to visit one of my best friends at the University of Central Florida, it was neat to see how she matured as a person. She took me to all the cool bars, introduced me to all of her new friends and gave me a tour of campus. Getting to see how she has evolved so much was so fascinating.

Visiting my friends at Florida State University was a whole experience in itself. I had many friends go to this school. Each of them lives their own lives, some still hang out, and some are even roommates. The culture at each university is so much different than the culture at my school. It was fun to meet all of their new classmates and sorority sisters. Getting to know the people that spend every day with the friends that I used to spend every day with is something I love to do.

If you ever have a break from studying, get a little bored, or even just miss your friends, give them a call and ask to stay with them for the weekend! I promise you will learn so much more about them and how they are taking on their new phase of life.

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