To my best friend’s roommate:
First of all, I am jealous of you to begin with. My best friend and I went separate ways, and now you get to live with the best person ever. I will know if you mistreat them because I will hear all about it, trust me. We have had an amazing summer, amazing memories, and an amazing friendship. I did not have too many friends, but the ones I did have were extremely close. They were there when I needed them and I was there when they needed me. We kept homeostasis in each other's lives like no other.
But now, they won’t need me. I won’t be able to provide the same help that I used to. Now that we are 394 miles apart, I cannot help them when they cry. I cannot help them when they need me. All I can do is offer an ear, just to listen. Things will change. Be ready to listen to them call me. A lot in the beginning, a moderate amount in the middle, and potentially nonexistent in the end.
High school has made us close, but college might be the end of us. I hate to admit that, but it might be true. Who knows? We might beat the odds, we might be best friends forever with kids that we will force to marry each other. My point is that you might replace me and I secretly hate you for that, but you will be there for her, so I have to appreciate you.
When they cry, make them laugh. When they laugh, make them laugh more. When they mess up, give them some advice that sounds good. When they are moody, deal with them, please. I know they are a pain in the butt, but they are someone’s best friend- mine.
I hope you guys get along, I really do. This should be a year of thriving and success. You should work together to make it through this year. Totally go all out, take them to the football games and decorate your room like it is the coolest thing since sliced bread. Make more friends, be social, try hard in school.
They are unique, appreciate them for what they have to offer- even if it isn’t a lot. They might be awkward and uncomfortable, but if I can deal with it, you can too. You will have to learn to live with all of their weird quirks, but it is totally worth it. Get to know them and learn to love them.
Anyway, I am sure you will hear from me. I am sorry for my mini lecture, but this is the only way I know how to explain my thoughts. I hope your school year is great too, but just know they are my top priority. I can't help a whole lot, but if you are concerned, please call. I am here to help. We now have a common thread in our lives. I hope you enjoy them as much as I would have.
Sincerely,
Your roommate's best friend.
