Dad, when I think of the people who have infinitely blessed my life and made me into the person I am today, you're at the top of the list. You've been a consistent rock in my life for the past 20 years and I could not be more thankful for that. As Father's Day approaches this coming weekend, I wanted to write you this letter to tell you how much you mean to me, because Lord knows I don't tell you that nearly enough.
I remember being five, six, seven years old (and about three feet tall) and being so excited to see you come in the door after work. I loved nights where you would read to me or tell me about work and ask me about what I was learning in school. I loved (and still do) having people tell me I look so much like you and knowing that I was your buddy. Mom has always said we're two peas in a pod, and that's one of my favorite things about our relationship. I get my impeccable music taste, my hilarious wit and my love of Italian food (namely, carbs) from you. But seriously. You've given me a love for knowledge and a passion for helping others, two things I could not be more thankful for.
You put up with me in my teenage years, which is a notable feat in and of itself. Despite my overdramatic spirit and desire for independence, you demonstrated to me love every day, even when that meant being the bad guy and grounding me every once in a while. My 15-year-old self would not believe I am saying this now, but thank you for doing that, even when it sucked.
Dad, you have taught me so much about what a husband and father should look like. You showed me what incredible dedication looks like in your unparalleled work ethic. You have showed me what true leadership is in both a family and work context. You selflessly love your family and consistently put us first, even in times where your job has made it so hard to do that.
Not only that, but you have comforted me in times of heartbreak of any sort. You've given advice (and tissues) when life has been tough and even brought home ice cream in my post-breakup depressed states. You've prayed for me, walked through life with me and helped me with so much in 20 years that it'd be impossible to list all of the ways. Thank you for always wanting the best for me and encouraging me to not settle for anything in life.
It's kind of been our thing in the last few years that I remind you that you'll always be my number one guy, no matter what. I don't want you to think I say that just because you're my dad; I truly mean it. At the end of the day, you're my best friend and you mean so much to me. I couldn't be more thankful to have a dad and role model like you. Happy Father's Day, Daddio.
Love always,
Your Little Girl
