Let's Talk About Christine

Let's Talk About Christine

Girls are supposed to gossip, right?

Seriously, we are going to talk about Christine. It is crucial. Christine is a typical girl. She does makeup, dyes her hair, and enjoys shopping. Travel and photography are a thing for her here. She's always doing that “posting pictures of her food” thing. She's obsessed with the arts and love stories, especially novels, and she likes to write. Maybe she enjoys pets, too, always calling everything with two eyes cute. Hangs out with guys a lot. Let's give her long, blonde hair if you want. She buys pocketbooks and goes the gym so she has a "good figure". She does all the stereotypical "girl" behaviors. When she was a kid, she used to play with figurines.

I know what you’re thinking: How could you do this to Christine?

Now, let me flesh out Christine a little bit more.

Christine does makeup and hair dye because she likes to cosplay comics and horror movies (her favorite kind of movies, mind), and her natural hair color isn’t blonde. When she goes shopping, it’s for games, comic books, and sports supplies, because she rallied for her high school to get a girl’s lacrosse team and ended up being the captain. Her writing and arts interests lie in fantasy, like Lord of The Rings type fantasy, with a slightly romantic and dramatic twist throughout. Her favorite pet isn’t a cat: it’s a lizard, and she tends to think Skinks – yes, in all of their bug-eating glory – make the best beginner lizards, but her interests lie with the larger monitors. She hangs out with guys but hasn’t wanted to date. And never has. She’s not much of a cook either and is a black belt instead, so she didn’t cook that food she posted a photo of. Christine also buys mini backpacks for hiking and also goes to the gym because she bench presses and lifts weights. The figurines she used to play with were dinosaurs.

Right.. so that’s Christine. What’s that? Were you expecting Gucci bags? (Not that there is a problem with Gucci bags).

You probably stereotyped Christine, just as you stereotype, maybe, a Christopher. Men and women get stereotyped, but more often than not Christine is crazy.

You don't know Christine or Christopher. You have no idea what they like, who they are, what they believe, etc. Gender stereotype harms both genders. It leads us to all to put pressure on ourselves to act a certain way, do a certain thing, say specific things, etc. It leads to no fun for everyone. Both Christine and Christopher don't like to be stereotyped, and neither should you.

If Christine teaches you anything, let her teach you it's okay to be different. And don't stereotype her, because you had no idea what she was like.

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​An Open Letter To The People Who Don’t Tip Their Servers

This one's for you.

Dear Person Who Has No Idea How Much The 0 In The “Tip:" Line Matters,

I want to by asking you a simple question: Why?

Is it because you can't afford it? Is it because you are blind to the fact that the tip you leave is how the waiter/waitress serving you is making their living? Is it because you're just lazy and you “don't feel like it"?

Is it because you think that, while taking care of not only your table but at least three to five others, they took too long bringing you that side of ranch dressing? Or is it just because you're unaware that as a server these people make $2.85 an hour plus TIPS?

The average waiter/waitress is only supposed to be paid $2.13 an hour plus tips according to the U.S. Department of Labor.

That then leaves the waiter/waitress with a paycheck with the numbers **$0.00** and the words “Not a real paycheck." stamped on it. Therefore these men and women completely rely on the tips they make during the week to pay their bills.

So, with that being said, I have a few words for those of you who are ignorant enough to leave without leaving a few dollars in the “tip:" line.

Imagine if you go to work, the night starts off slow, then almost like a bomb went off the entire workplace is chaotic and you can't seem to find a minute to stop and breathe, let alone think about what to do next.

Imagine that you are helping a total of six different groups of people at one time, with each group containing two to 10 people.

Imagine that you are working your ass off to make sure that these customers have the best experience possible. Then you cash them out, you hand them a pen and a receipt, say “Thank you so much! It was a pleasure serving you, have a great day!"

Imagine you walk away to attempt to start one of the 17 other things you need to complete, watch as the group you just thanked leaves, and maybe even wave goodbye.

Imagine you are cleaning up the mess that they have so kindly left behind, you look down at the receipt and realize there's a sad face on the tip line of a $24.83 bill.

Imagine how devastated you feel knowing that you helped these people as much as you could just to have them throw water on the fire you need to complete the night.

Now, realize that whenever you decide not to tip your waitress, this is nine out of 10 times what they go through. I cannot stress enough how important it is for people to realize that this is someone's profession — whether they are a college student, a single mother working their second job of the day, a new dad who needs to pay off the loan he needed to take out to get a safer car for his child, your friend, your mom, your dad, your sister, your brother, you.

If you cannot afford to tip, do not come out to eat. If you cannot afford the three alcoholic drinks you gulped down, plus your food and a tip do not come out to eat.

If you cannot afford the $10 wings that become half-off on Tuesdays plus that water you asked for, do not come out to eat.

If you cannot see that the person in front of you is working their best to accommodate you, while trying to do the same for the other five tables around you, do not come out to eat. If you cannot realize that the man or woman in front of you is a real person, with their own personal lives and problems and that maybe these problems have led them to be the reason they are standing in front of you, then do not come out to eat.

As a server myself, it kills me to see the people around me being deprived of the money that they were supposed to earn. It kills me to see the three dollars you left on a $40 bill. It kills me that you cannot stand to put yourself in our shoes — as if you're better than us. I wonder if you realize that you single-handedly ruined part of our nights.

I wonder if maybe one day you will be in our shoes, and I hope to God no one treats you how you have treated us. But if they do, then maybe you'll realize how we felt when you left no tip after we gave you our time.

Cover Image Credit: Hailea Shallock

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