Let's Not Grow Up
Start writing a post
Lifestyle

Let's Not Grow Up

Let's stay young at heart.

19
Let's Not Grow Up
Luke Pamer

This time of the year is a favorite of mine. Leaves are starting to change colors and covering the ground. It's chilly enough to cuddle into hoodies and blankets but not so cold to where your nose is frozen. And it's nearly Halloween! Pretty much the best time of the year. And one aspect of Halloween that still hasn't changed for me after nearly 22 years is how it makes me never want to grow up.

There is magic in staying young at heart. It creates a lightness that you can't ever lose. It's a happiness of never growing up. When we're young we dream about staying young and never having to grow up to be an adult. Well, sadly that's something that we just can 't change. But it doesn't mean we have to age our hearts.

And I'm not talking about staying immature in our thoughts or beliefs, rather finding pleasure in the simple things. Like new coloring books and crayons, or bubble bath beards (even for guys too). And even dressing up as a sheet ghost for Halloween even if you're nearly 35.

Acting like a child every now and then shouldn't be that much of a problem for anyone. It's simply remembering how we were when we were young, not a care in the world just amused by the different shapes in the clouds. It's simplicity at its finest. Nothing overcomplicated or overanalyzed, just life as it is. Nothing more than that.

But as we get older the simple things are harder to find and even harder to enjoy. Long gone are the days that all we had to worry about was whether that cloud looked like a rabbit or a dog. Now we worry about work, about classes, about money and about life. And I'm definitely not exempt from this. And I definitely, definitely think that we need to get back to this stat of mind.

Being able to focus on what is important in life but also being able to enjoy life in the simplest ways is something that I strive for and I think others should as well. Staying young at heart is something that would make life a far lot easier to handle.

Don't grow up. Don't let life take away the simple things from you. Enjoy each and every one of them as they come along. Let's stay young forever.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

87512
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

53773
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments