Sophomore Year Taught Me More Outside Of The Classroom Than In

Sophomore Year Taught Me More Outside Of The Classroom Than In

Two down and two to go.


Freshman year, everything was new and exciting. Finding out who you are away from home, meeting people from all over the country, and having no parental supervision for the first time. The feeling that you could meet somebody at any minute and change your life was a stimulating feeling. When all the new things began to fade away, and classes got hard, freshman year was a learning experience like none other.

Then Sophomore year punched me in the face.

Bills, budgeting, relationships, roommates, classes, turning twenty, and everything in between pushed me to my absolute limit.

Sophomore year was the first glimpse at adulthood. You have more freedom than Freshman year thanks to no Residental Advisor, but have fears of leaving your lights on because you pay for electricity or sleeping alone in the house when your roommates leave. You learn more about the way the world works in these ten short months.

I learned to step out of my comfort zone.

After Freshman year, I realized I wasn't involved in clubs or activities. I tried out for clubs I didn't make and got into some that introduced me to my best friends. Sophomore year is a great time to join a club. While Freshman year has a lot of aspects to adjust to, Sophomore year gives you two more years in a club that you enjoy, and you can become close with older and younger people because you resemble the "middle child" in college. Try something new and take advantage of what your school has to offer before it's too late.

I learned to be more responsible.

After a long day of classes, it was easy to become lazy and roll through Chick-Fil-A's drive-thru. Sadly, I had to have the "we have food at home" talk with myself because of the bills and rent I needed to save money for. So, turning off my lights and cleaning my dishes without my mother constantly nagging me was my self - accomplishment for the week.

I learned to open up.

I have always been an extrovert, but I had a hard time letting people in. I have become so accustomed to being independent that I never allowed anybody into my weird world. I dated during my sophomore year and it was one of the best things I did during this school year. Not only relationships but my friendships got better as well. I learned to stand my ground for things I didn't like, listen to understand not just listening to respond, and how to say "yes" more instead of watching Netflix in my bed.

I learned that health is always the top priority.

Taking 18 credits spring semester was my first mistake. Being on campus and in class from 9 to 8 every day took a toll on my body. Especially since I couldn't say no to a Wednesday night party or 2 a.m. run to Cookout. You have to take care of your body. Take an hour a day to sit outside, eat a good meal, or make a small workout routine just to burn some calories.

As I begin the summer before my Junior year of college, I can safely say that Sophomore has been my favorite year so far. All I can do moving forward is continue to grow while making mistakes along the way.

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Dear Mom and Dad, You Don't Understand What College Is Actually Like In The 21st Century

I can skip class. I can leave early, and I can show up late. But, ya see, I am not doing that.

College is not what you think it is. I am not sitting in a classroom for six hours listening to a professor speak about Shakespeare and the WW2.

I am not given homework assignments every night and told to hand them in next class.

I do not know my daily grade for each of the five classes I am taking, and I don't know if my professor even knows my name.

College today is a ton different than how it was 20+ years ago.

I go to class for about maybe three hours a day. Most of my time working on "college" is spent outside of the classroom. I am the one responsible for remembering my homework and when my ten-page essay is due.

I can skip class. I can leave early, and I can show up late. But, ya see, I am not doing that. I am a responsible person, even if you do not think I am.

I do get up every morning and drive myself to class. I do care about my assignments, grades, my degree, and my career.

I spend a lot of time on campus having conversations with my friends and relaxing outside.

I am sick of older generations thinking that us millennials are lazy, unmotivated, and ungrateful. While I am sure there are some who take things for granted, most of us paying to get a degree actually do give a s**t about our work ethic.

Dear mom and dad, I do care about my future and I am more than just a millennial looking to just get by.

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Saying Goodbye To Sophomore Year Of College Is Harder Than I Expected

Thank you for all of the memories and fun, they will last a lifetime.


This year seemed to absolutely fly by. It feels like just yesterday I was packing up and ready to fly back to my year-round home. When looking back to August it's as if I just blinked my eyes and suddenly it was May and I was closing out another year of college.

It's the strangest feeling when you look back and you remember it all being so close, but also so far away.

Coming back to college was something I looked forward to all summer. This year I lived in a sorority house with girls that quickly turned into my best friends and sisters. Although slightly hesitant on the flight here, I knew that this was the right place for me to be. Freshman year was a totally new experience in a new place, and sophomore year would be too, but now I would be in a place I called home.

Sophomore year was different, but it was more comfortable for me than freshman year was.

Academically, I pushed myself to succeed as best as I could. It wasn't always easy, but I had a better understanding of the flow of school and what was going to be expected of me. Campus was no longer foreign and scary, but a place to explore every single day. Faces were more familiar and buildings were no longer so unknown. Asking for help when needed was something that I did way more than I used to, and I'm proud of myself.

Socially, this year has given me everything I could've dreamed of. My friends who were just friends at first became sisters. Living in a sorority house has given me a community and family of so many people that I will hold close for the rest of my life. It was truly the best thing I'll never do again.

Personally, I have grown into myself. I started college scared, shy and afraid of the unknown. Now, halfway through my experience, I know how to stand tall and hold my own. I'm not afraid to stand up for what's right, voice my opinion and fight when I need to. I have always been an independent person, but now I was someone who could do it all on my own. Though I am still so young, I feel I have a better grip on life and how to live it as an adult.

Sophomore year for me was when I grew the most. I think that I have really come into my own and feel more confident in the person that I am becoming. I do struggle with bumps in the road and not every day is perfect, but we're all human. I know that I am leaving this year a better and stronger person, with so many connections that will last me a lifetime.

I was able to make Sophomore year, my year.

I'm sad to be leaving school, but am looking ahead to having a summer for myself. I hope to come back in the fall energized and ready to do my best, just as I was a year ago. For those who are going to be sophomores in college, I urge you to make it the best.

Study hard, enjoy yourself, make your best friends and just have fun.

You never get this time back, so make the most of every moment!

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