On Saturday, March 4, 2017 I turned nineteen years old. I still can't believe that I'm in college, let alone getting older, so my birthday caught me by surprise this year. Although I'm still young, I fancy myself old soul, and in my time on earth thus far, I've learned these valuable lessons about life.
1. Don't be afraid to be yourself.
You are the only version of you that this world will ever have. Embrace the quirks that make you different.
2. Be humble.
Give credit where credit is due, and let others boast for you.
3. Be grateful for everything you have.
You have so many blessings that others want badly. Don't take your family, your education, the roof over your head, or even your meals for granted.
4. Don't give up easily.
If you quit, you'll never know how much you could have accomplished.
5. Beauty comes from within.
A pretty face means nothing if you don't have a pretty heart. Kindness and happiness are the only cosmetics you need.
6. Everyone deserves kindness
Friends, family, teachers, and strangers each have a life as complex as your own. Even if you don't know the struggles that someone is going through, the least you can do is show them kindness.
7. Be optimistic instead of pessimistic.
Everyone has dreary days, but it helps to look for the rainbows instead of the storm clouds.
8.You're smarter than you think you are.
Don't let the intelligence of others intimidate you. Do your best and believe in your own abilities.
9. Don't worry.
My mom often tells me "Don't borrow trouble." Each moment you spend worrying about something is a moment that you'll never get back. Although if something is truly bothering you, get help or be proactive and do something about it.
10. Everything happens for a reason.
Both good and bad things are blessings in disguise. You might not see the good in a situation, but believe me, it's there.
11. Stand for something or you'll fall for anything.
This world will tempt you and shake your faith. Be ready to stand up for yourself and your beliefs
12. Life goes on.
If you make a mistake or don't get something you wanted, it's not the end of the world. You never know when something amazing is around the corner.
13. Remember to laugh.
Whether you're stressed, angry, or bummed out, laughter really is the best medicine.
14. Make every day count.
Each day is a gift and we're never promised tomorrow. Spend today well because you'll never get it back.
15. Not everyone will like you...
... but that's okay. The people who matter most to you will love you unconditionally
16. Family is forever.
Even though I'm in college, my family drove two hours to spend my birthday with me and we all had an amazing day together. Friends and sweethearts come and go, but your family will always love you and be there for you.
17. Follow your dreams.
You have only one life to live, so why not spend it doing what you're called to do?
18. Say "I love you."
These three words are powerful, and you never know when someone really needs to hear them.
19. A little smile goes a long way.
Smiles really are contagious, and smiling is the easiest way to spread happiness.
