Most girls learn early on that guys suck. By the time high school is over, girls all have had their long list of heartbreaks. Girls always have best friends to fall back on when their hearts are broken, sometimes even their mom. Let's face it -- high school boys were the worst, but then girls moved on to college. In reality, if you are a male from the age 18 to 25, you are the true heartbreakers. These are the years of a girl’s life where they are growing into their own. Let's face it girls are over sensitive, emotional, and sometimes they tend to obsess over the little things. It's OK if they do that, it’s essentially what they should be doing.
As a girl, we tend to become attached with the common day player who gives us mixed signals -- though never can we just ask you the simple question, "Do you like me or not?" Though if you find yourself liking a girl, show it! If you really want to keep her try to follow these five things. Personally, I know these will help. Now a day we can find out what you did on this day three years ago. Technology is amazing, you can't have secrets.
1. Stop Liking Half Naked Girls On Social Media
We see it. Unless she's published and making a mint off her body and in top physical shape, just don't do it. It really hurts us. Keep in mind we see this and eventually we might think this is what you want to see from us. Ask yourself how you would like it if we posted a picture of ourselves posing and wearing the exact same thing as the picture you liked. Overall, you probably wouldn't like it. I never said you couldn't look at inappropriate pictures, just don't hit "like" or comment on it. If we don't know you're looking at it then it doesn't hurt or bother us. We won't even bring it up to you.
2. Delete Snapchat
You honestly should just get rid of Snapchat now in advance. God only knows what some girl will send you. The world already knows it’s an app to send nudes, let's be real. We will find out. You guys are really bad at keeping secretes and so is the girl that is sending you nudes already knowing you're with someone. Word spreads like wildfire. I'll be honest if your girl is anything like me she will get revenge in the meanest and worst way possible.
3. Goodbye Dating Apps
Delete anything along the lines of Tinder completely off your phone. No temptations. Too easy can you open the app and talk to someone. Plus you have her, in no way is there a reason to be on a dating app. You found someone, remember that.
4. Don't Stop Flirting
She might think you've lost interest. Showing her that she is the only and only is so important. Make sure she knows that you're still as crazy as her as the day you meant her. Love her daily and tell her how awesome she is. A happy girlfriend is a happy boyfriend and trust me this really can pay off in places. Take her out, show her off. When you stop flirting with her she will begin to worry about you that something isn't right. It will consume her.
5. Think Forever
I cannot stress this one enough, in my opinion, this is the most important! So pay close attention. Always make it know that your sole interest is in her, your sole intention is to marry her one day, and grow with her. If you don't think this about her in the beginning, don't pursue her. It's that simple. If you can't see yourself with her in five years or even one don't lead her on. You will break her heart. If you do this, then you are stealing her time from finding someone who truly deserves her heart and everything she has to offer.
In the end, think before you act. Actions always have repercussions. I've learned that the hard way. There are things in life you cannot take back. So if she really means that much to you then show her daily because when you lose her over something so small you'll regret that one thing forever. It could take a lifetime to get her back.
