It's Something You Never Think Will Happen To You

It's Something You Never Think Will Happen To You

It had to be a rumor.


Sometimes in life, we get thrown into situations we never thought we would be in. It was a casual Thursday night in State College. No one would have thought an active shooter was nearby.

I was hanging out with my roommates and neighbors, laughing, smiling, and enjoying ourselves. Suddenly, the text messages start.

"I just heard there was a shooter at The Retreat!"

"There is an active shooter out on the loose omg!!!!"

"Someone got killed at a bar, but idk which one"

"I heard there was an accident and shooting by your apartment"

"The shooter is running through our complex"

"What is going on? This is F***ing State College"

Text after text. Rumor after rumor. We had NO clue what was going on, who the shooter was, or where he even was.

Minutes were passing by and we were unsure of how to feel. Was it a rumor? Was it true?

Finally, updates were coming live on television and Twitter. "One woman was killed and another was flown to the hospital following a shooting at the Ramada Hotel in State College."

At this moment, it became surreal. I never thought I would be in the situation in life where there was an active shooter around me. After hearing about all the shootings within the past few years in schools all over the world, you never think it will happen to you. In Happy Valley, I never expected to be 2 minutes away from a serious crime scene. This man was violent.

As we sat there waiting for updates, I thought in my mind about my family and loved ones. I thought to myself, what if I happened to be in the bar? What if I was driving that way to get a snack? What if I was walking to my car from the restaurant next door?

This really showed me what they always say, "You never know what could happen in life."

This situation was very scary because this man was actively shooting. He operated his vehicle after killing the people initially in the bar at the hotel. His vehicle was crashed on our street. He then broke into a home and killed another male, just 3 minutes away from our apartment complex.

Eagerly we all sat around watching the live news and checking our Twitter updates to hear that he was pronounced dead. At that moment, we finally felt at ease.

The life lessons that were learned in this situation are once in a lifetime. I truly believe this situation gave me a different outlook on life. Being in a danger zone with a man who has complete power over you is one of those feelings you do not wish upon anyone.

The feeling of someone being shot innocently 2 minutes away from you is a queasy feeling. What if it was yourself?

My heart goes out to the family of the loved ones who were killed. My heart goes out to the friends of the loved ones who were killed. My heart goes out to the people in the restaurant who had to fear their life while trying to enjoy a night out. This world is an unpredictable place.

So tonight, I ask you to hold your loved ones close and tell them you love them. No matter where they are, anything can happen at any time.

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The Truth About Young Marriage

Different doesn't mean wrong.

When I was a kid, I had an exact picture in my mind of what my life was going to look like. I was definitely not the kind of girl who would get married young, before the age of 25, at least.

And let me tell you, I was just as judgmental as that sentence sounds.

I could not wrap my head around people making life-long commitments before they even had an established life. It’s not my fault that I thought this way, because the majority opinion about young marriage in today’s society is not a supportive one. Over the years, it has become the norm to put off marriage until you have an education and an established career. Basically, this means you put off marriage until you learn how to be an adult, instead of using marriage as a foundation to launch into adulthood.

When young couples get married, people will assume that you are having a baby, and they will say that you’re throwing your life away — it’s inevitable.

It’s safe to say that my perspective changed once I signed my marriage certificate at the age of 18. Although marriage is not always easy and getting married at such a young age definitely sets you up for some extra challenges, there is something to be said about entering into marriage and adulthood at the same time.

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Getting married young does not mean giving up your dreams. It means having someone dream your dreams with you. When you get lost along the way, and your dreams and goals seem out of reach, it’s having someone there to point you in the right direction and show you the way back. Despite what people are going to tell you, it definitely doesn’t mean that you are going to miss out on all the experiences life has to offer. It simply means that you get to share all of these great adventures with the person you love most in the world.

And trust me, there is nothing better than that. It doesn’t mean that you are already grown up, it means that you have someone to grow with.

You have someone to stick with you through anything from college classes and changing bodies to negative bank account balances.

You have someone to sit on your used furniture with and talk about what you want to do and who you want to be someday.

Then, when someday comes, you get to look back on all of that and realize what a blessing it is to watch someone grow. Even after just one year of marriage, I look back and I am incredibly proud of my husband. I’m proud of the person he has become, and I’m proud of what we have accomplished together. I can’t wait to see what the rest of our lives have in store for us.

“You can drive at 16, go to war at 18, drink at 21, and retire at 65. So who can say what age you have to be to find your one true love?" — One Tree Hill
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Summer And Jobs

Working summers doesn't have to be tedious.


Like many other college students, I was ready for summer but was kinda bummed that I had to work. Its not that I didn't like where I was working, I actually was really lucky to be working in a hospital environment but I just hated being alone all summer from 9-5. I've had this job for a few years now and a few other paid interns came and went but I never really connected with any of them. This year is different though.

I got really lucky to have another intern work with me that was very similar to me. The tasks we got were always simple but they were made to be more fun because I got to do them while talking with someone else. Now I actually enjoy and look forward to going to work.

The key to finding a good job is finding one that you enjoy doing and one that will help you gain knowledge that will help you out with future career plans. Working with friends also make tasks enjoyable! I would be careful with working with your friend however because if your job needs you to be serious and focused, being around your best friends may distract you from that.

Another thing that definitely makes summer jobs more enjoyable are taking breaks! It is your summer vacation after all! I'm not saying don't take a day off just to sit around, but if you make plans with family and friends, take a Friday off and enjoy the warm weather and good company! Employers understand that us college students and on break and have lives, they are usually very lenient with days off!

If you have to do a summer job to make money to live off of or pay for college, the best thing to do is look at the big picture. If you don't enjoy your job but can't afford to quit, remember that the money if going to help you out a lot. Also, this job is probably only for the summer right? So it's not permanent my friend! Get through these annoying few weeks and you will be back at college, taking steps for a bigger and brighter future.

Summer jobs are tough, I know, but make the most of it! And don't forget to enjoy it whenever you can!!!


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