- People are SOO EXCITED for you to join!
- You’ll get 200 FB friend requests.
- That person side-eyeing you as you get 200 FB friend requests will think you’re super popular.
- Random people from your sorority will say “hi” to you.
- You’ll also see people from rush who you vaguely remember,
- And question if you should say “hi” or not.
- You’ll go on dates with your gals all the time,
- Especially for brunch, because everyone knows that brunch is the new black.
- You can also count on them to make sure your outfits are 👌 and 🔥.
- You won’t have to worry about walking into a room and not knowing anyone; chances are that one of the 200 girls in your sorority will be there.
- You’ll meet 6 Catherines, 3 Sarahs, 3 Natalies, 2 Claras, and a whole bunch of Hannahs.
- And you won’t be able to remember who’s who,
- But it’s okay, people will forget your name, too.
- You’ll get to do your first real sorority squat,
- And don your letters,
- And spend a ridiculous amount of time trying to figure out a really simple hand sign.
- You’ll get a whole new group of friends to watch “The Bachelor” with,
- And perhaps even join a Bachelor fantasy league with them too.
- You’ll get fancayy with your Insta captions,
- And have to download the Greek alphabet keyboard in the process.
- You'll also have a TON of new followers,
- Who can also like your photos. #winwin
- They'll take your weekends to a whole new level.
- You'll get a ton of new “sorority swag.”
- You'll do philanthropy,
- And what makes it better is that it's with a ton of girls who you love and who support you too.
- You’ll say “sratty” a few too many times.
- You’ll take tons of photo booth pictures with your “sisters,”
- Reveling in the fact that you can now call each of the 199 other girls your “sister.”
- With tons more from across the country too. #networking
- Because you’re joining a community of awesome, delightful, empowering, and overall amazing women,
- And you’ll learn how lucky you are to be a part of it.
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Emotional: a word used often nowadays to insult someone for their sensitivity towards a multitude of things.
If you cry happy tears, you're emotional. If you express (even if it's in a healthy way) that something is bothering you, you're sensitive. If your hormones are in a funk and you just happen to be sad one day, you're emotional AND sensitive.
Let me tell you something that goes against everything people have probably ever told you. Being emotional and being sensitive are very, very good things. It's a gift. Your ability to empathize, sympathize, and sensitize yourself to your own situation and to others' situations is a true gift that many people don't possess, therefore many people do not understand.
Never let someone's negativity toward this gift of yours get you down. We are all guilty of bashing something that is unfamiliar to us: something that is different. But take pride in knowing God granted this special gift to you because He believes you will use it to make a difference someday, somehow.
This gift of yours was meant to be utilized. It would not be a part of you if you were not meant to use it. Because of this gift, you will change someone's life someday. You might be the only person that takes a little extra time to listen to someone's struggle when the rest of the world turns their backs.
In a world where a six-figure income is a significant determinant in the career someone pursues, you might be one of the few who decides to donate your time for no income at all. You might be the first friend someone thinks to call when they get good news, simply because they know you will be happy for them. You might be an incredible mother who takes too much time to nurture and raise beautiful children who will one day change the world.
To feel everything with every single part of your being is a truly wonderful thing. You love harder. You smile bigger. You feel more. What a beautiful thing! Could you imagine being the opposite of these things? Insensitive and emotionless?? Both are unhealthy, both aren't nearly as satisfying, and neither will get you anywhere worth going in life.
Imagine how much richer your life is because you love other's so hard. It might mean more heartache, but the reward is always worth the risk. Imagine how much richer your life is because you are overly appreciative of the beauty a simple sunset brings. Imagine how much richer your life is because you can be moved to tears by the lessons of someone else's story.
Embrace every part of who you are and be just that 100%. There will be people who criticize you for the size of your heart. Feel sorry for them. There are people who are dishonest. There are people who are manipulative. There are people who are downright malicious. And the one thing people say to put you down is "you feel too much." Hmm...
Sounds like more of a compliment to me. Just sayin'.
Before going to college I was faced with a dilemma, should I rush? I wanted to rush just for the social aspect, I thought it would be my best shot at making a bunch of friends. However, deep down I knew that greek life really wasn't me. I didn't want to do something if I wasn't one hundred percent behind it. There was a part of me that did want to be in a sorority but the other part of me really didn't want to rush. Let me be clear, I don't think Greek life is bad, I just think it wasn't for me. I talked to my brother and sister-in-law about this because they both were in Greek life at the college I attend now; they told me that they didn't think I would like it either.
What my brother and sister-in-law told me that I might like was, a Christian sorority called Sigma Phi Lambda. When they described it to me it seemed like exactly what I was wanting. As soon as I got to college I sought them out; and I went to their recruitment nights. I loved it! It was exactly what I was looking for. I ended up joining. This sorority brought me an amazing group of friends! Most importantly, I have joined the perfect sorority for me! A few things I liked most about Sigma Phi Lambda was the people were so welcoming, it was more low key and laid back, I was still able to have a big and a "Pham", we still did lots of sorority things whilst also having activities that strengthened us on our walks with the Lord, and I gained so many sisters that I now have strong relationships with. Sigma Phi Lambda gave me so many friends and something to be involved in on campus. They gave me somewhere to belong and I am so glad I chose to join them.
Rushing may be exactly what you need when you go to college, but if it's not that is okay. Just join something that makes you happy. Join an organization that helps you grow and surrounds you with people that you want to be around. I promise when you get to college that there is an organization for just about everything, find the one that fits you. No matter what you choose I promise it's good. Just make sure you choose what is right for you.