20 times dJ Pauly d and vinny guadagnino were relationship goals

20 times dJ Pauly d and vinny guadagnino were relationship goals

If you ever doubt true love, just take a look at these two to be reminded that a perfect love is out there.

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DJ Pauly D and Vinny have been relationship goals since 2009. Through all the ups and the downs faced in the shore house, Pauly and Vinny have constantly stayed together. Which proves that sometimes it is okay to fall in love at the Jersey Shore.

1. When Pauly greeted Vinny when they were reunited in Miami

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Pauly not only confirms that Vinny is his boyfriend, but announces his arrival enthusiastically.

2. They have a sick hand shake

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Every perfect relationship should include an over the top perfect hand shake. Bonus points for the matching outfits.

3. They are totally in sync

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Couples who fist pump together, stay together.

4. They take perfect photo booth pictures together

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Many couples try for the perfect photo booth pictures and few succeed. Take notes from Pauly and Vinny next time if you want your photos to be super cute and fun.

5. Pauly hypes up Vinny's dance moves

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I wish I had someone like Pauly to hype up my stupid and questionable dance moves.

6. They only need each other to have a good time

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A pool party for two has never been so fun!

7. They are a dynamic duo

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Everyone know Deena and Snooki are attached at the hip, but so are Vinny and Pauly. While they may not have a special nickname they most definitely are Jersey Shore's best dynamic duo.

8. They use pinky promises

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Not only is the pinky promise absolutely adorable, but they even call each other by cute pet names! Cue the awing.

9. Pauly calls Vinny out when he is being ridiculous

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Scrapping the cheese off the pizza and leaving the crust is no way to eat a pizza, and Pauly makes sure Vinny knows he is being absurd.

10. Pauly wears a picture of Vinny on his chain

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A modern day locket, how sweet?

11.The way they look at each other

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So romantic!

12. Pauly doesn't want Vinny to leave

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When Vinny wanted to leave the shore house, Pauly wanted to hold on for dear life, because he didn't want to be without his partner in crime.

13. They were made for each other

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The perfect fit.

14. They appreciate the little gestures

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Thee littlest favors mean the world.

15. Vinny reassuring Pauly when he was nervous

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Meeting the parents is a big deal in most serious relationships, so Pauly being nervous makes total sense. Vinny making sure Pauly knows it will all be okay is a huge help in bringing down the nerves.

16. The way they make fun of each other

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The test of any good relationship is the ability to roast each other.

17. How excited Vinny gets to see Pauly

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Based on Vinny's smile everyone could tell Pauly was at the door.

18. Vinny is a good wing man to Pauly

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Vinny and the cast walked the streets of Miami trying to find a date for Pauly. That is dedication and hard work.

19. And when that failed. . .

Vinny dressed up as a girl, so Pauly wouldn't be disappointed that they couldn't find him a date.

20. Most importantly, they are in it for the long haul

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It is hard to find this kind of commitment these days.

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The 20 Best Episodes Of Spongebob Squarepants

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Spongebob and Patrick find themselves locked inside Sandy's dome for the winter, leaving them to fend for themselves and find some form of entertainment.



19. Idiot Box (Season 3)

Spongebob buys a television solely for it's box, leaving Squidward to struggle with comprehending the simplicity of living off of imagination for entertainment.



18. Something Smells (Season 2)

Spongebob makes a Sunday Sundae that trashes his breath (and his reputation) across Bikini Bottom.



17. Squilliam Returns (Season 3)

Squidward takes over the Krusty Krab for the night in an attempt to impress high school rival Squilliam Fancyson and his elite group of friends.



16. No Free Rides (Season 2)

Desperate to get Spongebob out of the classroom, Mrs. Puff does whatever it takes to get the sponge his license - even if he doesn't deserve it.



15. Mermaid Man and Barnacle Boy III (Season 2)

Left to housesit for their favorite undersea superheroes, Spongebob and Patrick release one of Bikini Bottom's most notorious villains (Man Ray) in exchange for his promise to be good.



14. Shanghaied (Season 2)

After being taken captive on the Flying Dutchman's ship, Spongebob and Patrick help the phantom scare everyone under the seven seas (sort of.)



13. Frankendoodle (Season 2)

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12. Graveyard Shift (Season 2)

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11. Sailor Mouth (Season 2)

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10. The Camping Episode (Season 3)

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9. Mid-Life Crustacean (Season 3)

Mr. Krabs joins Spongebob and Patrick on a night of reckless fun in an attempt to get in touch with his inner youth and impress his daughter, Pearl.


8. Krusty Krab Training Video (Season 3)

The inner workings of the Krusty Krab are revealed in this episode dedicated to breaking down all of the hoopla surrounding the restaurant's success and "training" all prospective employees.



7. SB-129 (Season 1)

Squidward journeys through the space-time continuum after finding himself locked in the Krusty Krab freezer for thousands of years, bringing us one of today's most popular memes.


6. Club Spongebob (Season 3)

After launching Spongebob's treehouse into the middle of nowhere, Squidward desperately seeks an escape route while Spongebob and Patrick obey the orders of their master, the Magic Conch Shell.


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3. Rock Bottom (Season 1)

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1. Band Geeks (Season 2)

The Season 2 finale of this classic cartoon brings some of the heartiest laughs and the most memorable jokes in the entire series as Squidward struggles to get his ragtag marching band in shape for the Bubble Bowl.

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It's Time To Challenge 'You Complete Me' Culture

Your partner should be your companion, not your completion!

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After having some time to reflect after "The Bachelor" finale, I think this is the perfect time to put this article out there. In this article, I want to offer you a different perspective on how to view relationships. I want to challenge you to defy cultural assumptions of what romance is and shine a light on how codependency can squash your happiness.

The puzzle analogy

In wedding vows or proclamations of love, we often hear the phrase, "You complete me." We compare finding our person to finding the missing piece of the puzzle in our lives. Once we place that puzzle piece in the empty hole, we can finally see the beautiful and complete picture. Without that piece, we would be in a frenzy, searching all around under the kitchen table and on everyone's chairs to see if we find it. We desperately hope the dog, or the baby, hasn't eaten it. We hold out hope.

This comparison, as I have found, has created quite an issue in our modern day society. We are so obsessed with finding that missing piece in our lives to complete us that we often search in the wrong places or live in unending frustration. Sometimes we find a perfectly wonderful person, but they seem to lack everything on our checklists of what we have deemed as the perfect missing piece, so we let them go. If you are one of the lucky ones who has found a person who fills the void in your life, you often try to shove them into the puzzle as hard as you can and force them to fit. You need to be filled; you need to have the beauty of the final picture — without it, how could you ever be completely happy?

Where did I go wrong?

I was riding along in the car with my boyfriend when I realized we had hit a rough patch. We are a long distance couple — going to separate colleges four hours away from each other — but we only live two minutes away from each other when we are back at home.

I had never had a boyfriend before my second semester of senior year. I had always been very independent. I moved a lot, which meant anytime I got close to dating someone, POOF, there I went. But, this time I had finally stayed and found an amazing guy — my best friend.

When I was single, I was the queen of relationship advice (as we all are when we are not blinded by rose-colored romance). Finally being in a relationship made me realize how easy it was to fall into habits that I had always scorned others for. I began letting this relationship affect me in ways I never even suspected it could.

Don't get me wrong, this was not his doing at all. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy I know. He is always lifting me up and supporting me to reach my dreams. While we both struggle with anxiety and depression, we have found a way to always put our individual mental health first. My boyfriend had dated people before me, but I had not. This altered expectations of what this relationship was supposed to look like for each of us. He knew what mistakes to try to stay away from, while I was still trying to figure it out.

How to reframe your perspective in relationships

Regardless of my background, I think I have stumbled on the most amazing way of reframing perspective in relationships. Once I started changing the lens on how I looked at our relationship, we started bickering less and I became so much happier.

Here it is: your significant other is your COMPANION, not your COMPLETION.

Of course, you should feel happy and enjoy when your partner is around. They should treat you with care and make you laugh, but they should not be the person filling the empty piece of your heart — that isn't their responsibility. They should not be the ultimate source of happiness that makes you feel emotionally whole. This perspective is extremely unhealthy because people are fickle and we make mistakes. We screw up . . . all the time. Our culture loves to use the phrase, "You complete me." It sounds extremely romantic. However, it can be so problematic.

Now, when I spend time or communicate with my boyfriend, I see it as a lucky bonus we get after we both have spent time improving ourselves that day. When I text him, I don't expect him to reply to me immediately — even though I still wish he would because of the need for instant gratification, let's be real. I know that he is going after his dreams by working as hard as he can to make a life for himself. As a girlfriend, not only should I commend him for that, but I should also give him the space to do that. Likewise, I should go after my dreams and work as hard as I can to achieve them.

Your partner should be the fun blanket you have on top of your comforter. You would be just as warm without the blanket and still get a good nights sleep, but the blanket is still really fuzzy and gives you extra joy and you can wrap it around you while you are watching tv. And, if it is a really cold and stormy night, perhaps you snuggle up with your blanket and hold it tightly for a little extra warmth and comfort.

I am a believer in God, and I believe his holy spirit makes me whole. Regardless of if you share this belief or not, I think we can all agree that we are all supposed to walk through life together and lift each other up. If we expect to put our happiness and worth on the shoulders of one person, then that relationship is going to crumble. Why would you want the person you love most to crumble? I certainly don't. I want to be able to look my partner in the eyes and say, "I love you and I want to stand by you when you need me. When you don't, I will be okay because I am still whole and fulfilled".

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