One thing that is nerve-racking is having to make decisions. But unfortunately, it's something we all have to do. Whether it is a big decision like who to marry or maybe what type of sandwich you want, we have to make them from a young age.

Some reasons why some people hate decisions are because they are scared of the consequences. Most of the time, especially for me, it is so hard to make decisions because I hate seeing people disappointed with me. What I have realized recently is that no matter what you do, not everyone is going to be happy. I have also realized that it is okay if they aren't either. You have to stay true to your convictions,beliefs, and yourself rather than the person who just likes to pick a fight.

Second I believe we do not like making decisions because we are scared to hurt ourselves, and those that we are closest to. I know personally that I have made some decisions that have hurt people, intentionally or unintentionally, and its the worst thing in the world to think about. My first semester of college, I hurt a lot of people by making crappy decisions, and I have learned to now think about what my decisions can do to those around me.

I also think sometimes decisions are hard because we lack knowledge in an area. I know it is always mindblowing to me that some people will buy expensive things without researching it! I think that I might be over analytical, but I struggle with overthinking about something I'm about to do if I don't fully understand the situation and repercussions.

Some things I think we can do help in making decisions seem so simple, but sometimes we forget to do them.

First, I think that we should collaborate with friends and mentors that we trust. It never hurts to go out for coffee with someone and ask them their opinion, With the help of others we can see other perspectives on the issues and we see what others would do. Most of the times, your mentors have more discernment than you regarding a certain area, and sometimes your friends have been through similar circumstances.

I think something that often contributes to bad decisions is rushing into things. I have learned even if there is a lack of time, take a deep breathe and take the time you need to make the decision. It is proven that you need to take care of yourself before you can make others happy. So, I suggest taking the time to get a cup of coffee, and sit and pray about what you are going to do.

Last, I want to encourage you that one decision isn't going to ruin God's plan in your life. Where you go to college, is not going to stop God from working in your life. We live in a world that is unsure of what tomorrow holds and what decision to make but God rules over all and is in control of every little thing in life.