Rake the leaves off your front porch, find a nice place to hang your holiday wreath, then sit back and take a whiff of that good ol’ pumpkin spice smell oozing from your red Starbucks cup.
We're halfway through November folks, and you know what that means: It's dark outside by 5 o'clock, Macy's already has their Christmas decorations up and lonely singles everywhere are on the prowl for a boo to cuddle up next to as the weather gets colder. Everyone knows that Halloween is the last holiday of the year where it's fun to be single, which is probably why tons of party goers celebrate the night with half of their butt cheeks hanging out.
But once November 1st hits we’re already preparing for our families to bombard us with the “are you seeing anyone?” question as soon as we sit down for Thanksgiving dinner. Think about it, there’s not one holiday between now and Easter where it’s fun to be bae-less.
The only party holiday for the next several months is New Year’s and even then you’ll be jealous if everyone besides you has a midnight kiss. So it’s time to start the hunt; don’t worry its not too late. Cuffing season can seem intimidating but if you master the system you will have someone to bring home for Christmas in no time.
1. Engage on social media
Our generation lives on their phones. If you are single and ready to mingle, advertise yourself somewhere the largest amount of people will see it. Post a hot selfie then sit back and wait for people to notice you. Even if you don’t get a response right away if you actively post on social media (not too much or you can seem annoying), your acquaintances A.K.A potential baes will constantly be reminded of you. If you’re posting statuses or photos that will engage in conversation, odds are someone will comment. If not, at least you’ve popped up on their feed and now they may be thinking of you and be more likely to start a discussion online or if they run into you in person.
2. Upgrade your wardrobe
I know its getting chilly and sweatpants and hoodies are pretty reliable go-to attire but sadly they don’t attract a lot of attention. There are so many cute fall/winter outfits that can be cozy and sexy at the same time that will have singles lining up at your doorstep. Meanwhile the rest of the world is looking scrubby you’ll be getting everyone’s attention.
3. Pick up a hobby
The best way to meet people is through common interest. If you’ve always wanted to take a salsa class, now’s the best time to do it. If you’ve wanted to get in shape and have been thinking about joining a gym, now’s the time to do it. Not only will you feel better about yourself, you’ll meet other people who can relate to the things that you like and are passionate about something. It’s been proven that we are attracted to people who are involved in activities because it shows us they are versatile and working on bettering themselves.
4. Change your look
Nothing says single like a change in style. Try out some new accessories, change up your hair color or try a new style. Do something a little bit drastic to put the spotlight on you and make people notice. There’s so many ways to reinvent your self, grow out a beard, cut some bangs, try out a new makeup look, get a piercing. Just as long as you’re doing something you really want to do not just for the attention because that will come naturally.
5. Get a job
We’re attracted to success. If there’s any time to be lazy it’s during the cold months of the year but if you do score a new boo Christmas and Valentine’s day are just around the corner and that can put a real big dent in your pocket if you aren’t prepared. Being independent and having your own money will not only help you prepare for a potential bae it’s also a new environment in which you can meet new people and also make you seem more versatile and accomplished.
