this one is for The Girl Who's Struggling with life

this one is for The Girl Who's Struggling with life

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, am I right? Haha.


I know you've probably had it rough the past couple of months, I understand. We all go through rough times that make us question our sanity. You will get through it, though. I promise.

You've learned so much in the past couple of months. You've learned that no matter how close you are to your friends, it's not impossible for you to fight and bicker. Maybe you've even decided that it's best if you stay away from past friends because all they do is bring you down. Just remember that your true friends will always stick beside you. You will always have yourself, so be your own best friend if you have to.

"That's when I realized what a true friend was. Someone who would always love you – the imperfect you, the confused you, the wrong you – because that is what people are supposed to do." Unknown.

Heartbreak may have even been a topic this past couple of months. If so, you've already learned that he/she obviously wasn't the one. One day, you will find the right person who will love you and cherish you, no matter what. Don't ever blame yourself, though. Remind yourself that a relationship is two-sided. Meaning whatever happened wasn't just your fault.

It's totally okay if you need to take some time to focus on yourself. You're not being selfish at all, and don't let anyone tell you that. It takes a lot to recognize that you need to focus on yourself, so you're already doing great! It's a lot easier to love yourself if you didn't already obvious.

Maybe you've just been really stressed lately, and you don't know what to do about it. That happens, sometimes. Take a deep breath and look at how far you've come. Up until this point you've managed to survive everything that's happened to you. Who is to say you won't get through this, too?

"Respect, love, and value yourself. Always remember to be good to yourself by taking care of yourself. Make yourself a priority and know that it's okay. Don't feel guilty for loving yourself, first! You're just as important as anybody else."
– Stephanie Lahart

You've learned and grown so much in this past couple of months. With everything you've overcome, give yourself a pat on the back. Not everything is easy and you've definitely persevered. Know your worth, because you are not worthless.

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10 Bible Verses for Self Esteem

Sometimes you need to search for inner strength and find your own self worth.

We all get those days that we just don't feel good enough for anything. Everything is going wrong. For me, I go to the bible to read the words of God. His personal dialog for us is filled with encouragement, hope, and lessons we can learn from. Here are my top ten verses that are uplifting and impacting when at the lowest of lows:

1. Philippians 4:13:

I can do all things in Him who strengthens me.

2. Psalm 46:5

God is within her, she will not fall.

3. Proverbs 31:25

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.

4. Psalm 28:76

The Lord is my strength and my shield.

5. 1 Corinthians 25:10

By the grace of God, I am what I am.

6. Romans 5:8

I loved you at your darkest.

7. Psalm 62:5-6

Only God gives inward peace, and I depend on Him. God alone is the mighty rock that keeps me safe, and he is the fortress where I feel secure.

8. 2 Timothy 1:7

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline.

9. 1 Peter 2:9

But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

10. 2 Chronicles 20:15

The battle is not ours, but God's.

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Reveal Your Inescapable Feelings And Emotions, Don't Suppress Them.

Lack of expression can lead you to endless damage.


Why do we restrict ourselves from expressing intense emotions? Is it because that is our way of undermining the importance of such emotions? Is it because we are attempting to satisfy others by saving them from our craziness? Why do we believe we are "crazy" simply for FEELING even when there is no reason to feel? Is it because we do not wish for people to see such aspects of ourselves that we consider a form of ugliness about our character? Why do we remain so hidden about the powers of our mind and heart? Why do we withhold ourselves from showing the world our most vulnerable treasures?


As you restrain your emotions, you are creating a fire in your heart. The kind of burning rage that will explode and cause further damage to innocent people. When burying our truths, this causes us to behave in an irrational manner. We may withdraw from connections, and not be as engaged in interactions with others.

When you teach yourself to act as if something has not bothered you, when in reality it pains your every thought, you will begin to get into the unhealthy routine of concealing what needs to be discussed. Without proper communication, the wounds will remain. In fact, without an ounce of discussion, the wound will continue to worsen. There will be no healing without confrontation about your deepest and most invisible feelings.

By disguising your emotions, you are not escaping them, you are simply postponing when they will be revealed. Shy away from producing every excuse in the book to justify your inability to admit to what is occurring in your thoughts. Even if you feel like the world would fail to understand your feelings, convey them so you can free your mind and not have to mentally carry a future burden.


The veiled feelings and emotions you are not thoroughly capturing will act as a slow poison. Not only will this create so much disaster within but it will also attack those around you. Have you ever caught yourself surprisingly angered at someone for an act that is minuscule in value? Have you ever witnessed a loved one reacts in a questionable way that made you wonder whether or not their groundless irritation was caused by someone else?

Silencing our emotions and feelings will lead us to take out such anger, hurt, and annoyance on others who are not the sources of our inner demons. It will be disturbingly easy to find other places to store our emotions that we are too busy restricting people from seeing. Sometimes we become so consumed in the efforts it takes to suppress our feelings that we are blind to the effects it has on those it is not meant to.

Emotions are our soul's way of asking for a sense of guidance and understanding. Release them before you find yourself in the burdening cycle of endless pain. Expressing such pain can begin to heal you.

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