Being a 20-year-old can be an awkward time for fashion. You're too old to be shopping in the juniors section for graphic print tees and bedazzled jeans, but the thought of venturing into the misses section of the department store makes you shutter with fear of mom jeans and basic blouses. However, as difficult as it may seem to find that middle ground, here are some helpful tips that can make your shopping adventures less stressful and your wardrobe more appropriate for who you're trying to be.
My first rule-of-thumb is, whether you are attending college or heading right into the work force, skip the sweatpants (and yes, that goes for class, too). Now, I know at this point I probably lost about 20 student athlete readers, but hear me out. When you attend class, you are being educated by professionals with "Dr." in their titles; is the first impression you want to give them that you either just came from the gym and didn't have time to change or you just rolled out of bed? I hope not. As comfortable as they are, sweatpants are not meant for everyday wear, especially being an adult pursuing higher education. Same goes for those of you already in the work force; I'm sure your higher-ups are already looking at you for management potential. Make sure you're sending the right message about the seriousness you take in your career.
The next tip I have to give is to get picky about where you're buying from. Your 20's are a great time to figure out what you stand for and what causes you want to support. A great way to endorse these convictions is by where you choose to put your money. Take time to look into the backgrounds of the stores and brands you're buying from. If something doesn't add up with your beliefs, reconsider if you want to put your money there. A personal example of this is how I deterred my business from the hipster-driven, teen clothing store, Urban Outfitters. After stumbling across a "Huffington Post" article on the company's murky ethics, I did some of my own research and discovered that Urban Outfitters has a long history of selling clothes printed with politically incorrect, racially-motivated slurs and jokes. This did not sit well with me, so I made the decision to take my business elsewhere. The Millennials are a very powerful generation; let's make sure we are keeping our politics straight, even with something as simple as our clothes.
Next tip. Start investing in your wardrobe. By this I mean start saving up for quality statement pieces. Spending a little extra for a tailored blazer or a pair of versatile ankle trousers can really make a difference. Worry more about the quality of the piece rather than the quantity of two for $10 cardigans at Forever 21 that will unravel after a couple of washes. Having these staple pieces in your wardrobe will make a huge difference in your style and confidence.
My last tip is to find balance in your style. I know it probably seems like I'm putting down anything fun and telling you to dress like a secretary, but that's not true. However, too much fun can be, well, too much. It's all about finding a middle ground. As good of a deal $5 crop tops is, they don't exactly scream everyday wear. Learn how to pair a classic blouse with a killer pair of ankle booties, or how to rock lightly distressed skinnies with a chic blazer. Find your personal style. Highlight it while remembering to play around with it. Set style goals. If you're one of the girls that is in love with your sweatpants, as I mentioned earlier, try making a goal of throwing in a pair of ankle pants or a comfy pair of straight leg jeans twice a week. Maybe you're like me and live in the color black. If that's the case, step out of your comfort zone and buy a bright blouse or add in a colorful statement necklace to mix things up. Getting dressed should be fun!
Although it might not be easy, the transition into your 20-something wardrobe is a must. It presents who you want to be to your friends, family and professional acquaintances. Make sure your style is saying what you want it to say. Go wow the world, my pretties!
