Finding Comfort In God

Finding Comfort In God

God has a plan for you.

Remember back to when you were in elementary school.

What was your favorite time of day? Did you look forward to snack time when your teacher would have everyone sit in a semicircle and smack on their goldfish and fruit rollups, while she read out loud? Do you remember walking in lines everywhere, hearing everyone "shh" each other, and never wanting to be the caboose?

I always looked forward to recess when we could go outside even though there was constantly a line for the swings and I was always afraid of falling from the monkey bars.

When I think back to these memories, they don’t feel real. They feel like something I once dreamed about or read in a book somewhere. It’s interesting to think about how I changed from that girl on the monkey bars when I was too afraid to let go and swing to the next. It makes me miss the past when I could go home and my only worry would be the math problems assigned as homework for that night.

When you leave for college, you know deep inside that nothing will be the same again. Home won’t be home anymore and your relationship with your parents will change.

"As one whom his mother comforts, so I will comfort you; you shall be comforted in Jerusalem" Isaiah 66:13 English Standard Version (ESV)

Sometimes the feeling of being homesick is suffocating. It’s not just a feeling for kids away at summer camp or freshmen at college. Imagine how the military member feels while deployed for months at a time or the girl who just moved to a big city for a summer internship.

What helps most in dealing with homesickness is keeping in mind why you are where you are, knowing your purpose. Call out to God for comfort. Because he has a purpose for you. Whatever period of life you are in, you have a reason to be where you are.

Attending college in the deep south, I’m getting a degree so I can graduate and go work where I want. Working the night shift, every little bit counts. Stationed in Iraq, you are serving your country. God has a plan for your life.

“I cry out to God Most High, to God who fulfills his purpose for me” Psalm 57:2 English Standard Version (ESV)

Everything always seems so much better in the past, but you can’t go back to the past. You can’t go home and have everything be the way it was. Just focus on the present, get the job done, and home will be waiting for you when you’re done.

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If you have not had sex yet, wait.


Premarital sex is not a new concept, no matter how much people like to pretend it is. You can trace scripture and historical texts back thousands of year to see that lust and fornication have been a problem since… well, since we humans have been problems.

They tell you in sex ed that sex causes you to form a bond with someone. They throw some big chemical names at you that are apparently in your body and cause that emotional attachment to happen, then you move on (or back to) how important condoms are and why STDs are so scary.

As a middle schooler or teenager, you can't understand what it means to become permanently connected to someone as a result of a quick, physical act.

If you haven't even had your first kiss, you really can't imagine what it's like to develop such a complex and intimate connection with someone because you have yet to feel the butterflies in your stomach from a kiss. So you really don't know what it's like to have a whole different type of feeling in your stomach.

You never forget your first love. It's one of the most cliche things you consistently hear, but it's true. Ask anyone. I guarantee your parents can still spurt out their first love's name in a few seconds. And most people never forget their first time. I know all my friends can recount that often awkward and slightly terrifying moment as if it happened an hour ago. When you mix those two, especially if you are in your teens, oh boy.

You never forget that. No matter how hard you try.

Everything you hear about sex is true: it's amazing, fantastic, life-changing, etc. There's a reason people have done it as frequently as they do, for as long as they have. But every time you sleep with someone, you leave a piece of yourself with them. Every time you choose to take that final physical step with someone, you cannot go back and collect that piece of your dignity and soul that you left with someone.

So, imagine what happens when you break up with someone you've slept with. Or that you just hooked up with. You have given someone a little slice of yourself forever. And you can never get it back. And imagine what happens when you do that multiple times. You give a piece of yourself to five, 10, 15, 20 or more people. Then you meet the person that you want to spend forever with. And you no longer have that whole part of you. You've given pieces away, and you can no longer give those to the love of your life.

So, save those pieces for your future spouse.

If you have not had sex yet, wait. If you have, consider not giving more pieces of yourself away to people who are not your spouse. Sex was created to be between two spouses, nobody else. So we need to try to maintain its integrity.

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I Completed My First Devotional And It Opened My Eyes

It's a matter of the heart, because it's an integral part of who we are.


Let me start off by saying that I was not paid to write about the BeLoved Devotional so what you are about to read is 100% my own opinion.

I have a bad habit of starting a devotional and never finishing it because I either forget about it or I get too lazy to catch up on the days I've missed but for the first time I was able to actually finish a devotional and let me tell you; I was definitely in my feels the entire time. This is honestly one of the first devotions to where not only did it focus on my relationship with God but it also allowed for me to focus on my relationship and it allowed me to focus on my relationship with myself regardless of my relationship status. Jordan Dooley most definitely outdid herself with her 14 days BeLoved Devotional.

Each day it allowed me to focus on myself and journal at the same time which is probably why I enjoyed the devotional so much. I loved being able to have something to reflect on and journal but most of all I loved how raw and honest each day was. I expected to feel unchanged as well as unaffected but at the end of the 14-day devotional, there was an abundance of emotions that were flowing through me. At the end of this 14-day journey, I was able to learn so much about myself and what was truly holding me back in life.

This devotional was all about why I was holding back but also about it is okay to be an independent person but also how to grow within your personal relationship but also your relationship to Christ. Each day I was able to be fully vulnerable and dive deep within myself and you would think that being vulnerable is a scary thing but it honestly wasn't that bad. I learned that I should be perfectly okay with my relationship status but also I should be seeking a relationship with Christ but also seeking a relationship with a better man and I should not be settling. Each day of the devotional was a new day for me to discover a little bit of myself that I did not think I would be able to discover.

"Yes, you are broken and yes, a sinner. But you are loved so much that your brokenness is redeemable" was one of the sayings that stuck with me at the end of this journey. I honestly do recommend that every girl read this devotional especially since it's free. Yes, ladies, it's FREE! It takes no more than 10 minutes of your day but those 10 minutes could possibly change your life and how you feel about your relationship status.

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