Dear girl,

Hey sweetie, how you holding up? I know it hurts right now but trust me it will get better. I know how it feels to think that he was the one and be so in love with him and him breaking your heart. It just means he isn't stable enough to handle all of your beauty. You may be insecure about yourself now, but that's okay. One day you'll find a guy that means the world to you and he'll never want to let you go. I wish there was a deadline from when the pain would stop but there sadly isn't. I was in your position once upon a time. There was a boy who I thought I was going to marry, but he turned out to be bad for me. He ended things but as the days went on I realized he wasn't for forever and always. Don't think you're in this alone. there are thousands of people in this world that are going/have gone through all of this already. As much as you don't want to think about it, but your mom went through it too. The first heartbreak is always the worst but sadly it doesn't get easier. But I do promise that one day you'll find your knight in shining armor and he'll rescue you from all the damage and pain. I'm just here to tell you that it will be worth it in the long run. For the girls whose first heart break this is, I'm sorry you are going through this. All you can do is keep your head up and like Dory said, "just keep swimming". If you're reading this and it isn't your first heartbreak, you know what's to come. just get yourself that ice cream flavor that you love so very much and put on that sad movie that makes you cry all the time, turn the lights off, grab a box of tissues and lay in bed. You will heal. Just like a broken bone, you'll need time before you are fully healed. The best way to try to make things go faster is to not think about it. I know it's hard to not think about that guy who you love(d), but do things that once made you happy. Go to the movies with your friends, or the beach. If you're old enough, go to the bar and knock a few drinks back. Maybe you'll find a guy that'll make you forget about your ex for a night. If you don't want to do that, have a girls night. Do whatever you think will help you in the long run and remember that it wasn't your fault. He left you because you were too much women for him to handle. If you're one of those girls who wants to show that guy you're better off without him, do it. He'll see you are a lot happier without him and he'll realize what a mistake he made. Chances are he'll be too scared to hit you up and say he misses you so he'll probably post pictures with him and random girls. That's when you go to the bar or the club or something and find the biggest, muscular, handsome looking guy and get him on your Instagram or snapchat. No guy can compare to muscles so you'll be "winning" that break up real fast. But for right now,it's okay to cry and let out all the pain and anger and frustration and whatever other emotion you are feeling. Do what you need to to get over that stupid boy who left the greatest thing that could ever happen to him.