13 Guys You Meet, Before You Meet The One, As Told By 'Sex And The City'

13 Guys You Meet, Before You Meet The One, As Told By 'Sex And The City'

Be warned: there's entirely too many before the one...

Sex And The City is more than just a TV drama, it is an empowering reality for women of all ages. If I took one thing away from Sex And The City it's that men, for the most part, can be the core of all our troubles as successful, happy women.

After all, who would honestly rather spend money on a date night than on a pair of boots or the new Kat Von D line?

These are the type of men and relationships we are all destined to encounter:

1. The Man That HAS To Be More Successful Than You.

I work damn hard to support myself and have the things I want in life along with a career I thoroughly enjoy. Stop trying to outshine me when we both know I'll always be equal, if not superior.

2. The boy that expects you to be the perfect housewife and do "wifely duties."

I'm sorry I'm not your mother and now that you say it, I actually loathe chores and adult responsibilities.

3. The guy that is entirely too open too quickly.

Yeah I could've went a few months before knowing that you have a love for eating cereal naked and an unhealthy relationship with watching anime.

4. The one that scares you with his perfection.

This one speaks for itself ladies.

5. The "I did Fireball shots last night- I never do Fireball" Date.

There's always that one date that happened due to a lack of alcohol judgement, and we never forgive ourselves. (This one usually results in the banning of some sort of shot or alcoholic beverage from further consumption in the future).

6. The one you think your BFF will FINALLY approve of.

They're usually less than thrilled to find out the news is about a boy rather than something you did to treat yourself.

9. The guys you have zero interest in but you feel like "you should be putting yourself out there."

Our family and friends are always telling us we should be looking for "the one" or finding a "nice guy to settle down with." We all have those dates that seem obligated just to justify our ability to brag at family events and happy hours that we have, indeed, been "dating."

10. The guy that left out of nowhere in a seemingly wonderful relationship & genuinely broke your heart.

There is a period in all of our lives that we can instantly tap into that takes us back to a time when we were left at the drop of a hat and alone to fend for ourselves. There is nothing like the pain, the crying in the shower and the tubes of coverup that masked our tired eyes through this experience that seemed to hit us like a hurricane.

11. The player that seems like a decent guy.

There are genuinely good guys and then there are the posers. We've all met em' , the guys that put up an amazing front that introduces them as the most trustworthy, family-oriented, goal-seeking man, while in their pastime they're sleeping with four other women in your zip code.

12. The In-Between Dorky Guy.

This is the one you're not really sure how you ended up with, but figured you'd give him a shot. However, in reality, and I mean this in the nicest way possible, you know you're way out of his league and he might just not be man enough for you.

13. The man that ends up being your "forever"

Now, I am all about woman empowerment and the fact that, as a rule, men are not the greatest souls on Earth, but there are a handful of really amazing guys. If you find one, treat him right and be treated right. You deserve the best and if you find a genuine, loving man, live together in true bliss and unrestricted romance.

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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The Football World Loses One Of Its Finest Players

Bart Starr passed away and NFL players, coaches, and fans all mourn the loss of the Packer legend, but his life and career will live on in hearts of Packer nation forever.


Bart Starr passed away at the age of 85 in Birmingham, Alabama. The NFL lost a great player. The Green Bay Packers lost a hero. And, the world lost a true gentleman. Starr's legacy has surpassed his accomplishments on the gridiron. He inspired not only his peers but the generations that have come after him. He is — and always — will be remembered as a Hall of Famer, a champion, and a Packer.

Bart Starr was a Packers legend. Starr led Green Bay to six division titles and five world championships. As the quarterback of Vince Lombardi's offense, he kept the machine going and executed the plays like no other. His mastery of the position was a large part of the Packers success in the 1960s. Starr was also the perfect teammate for the perfect team. His leadership put him in command of the Packers. Starr's time in Green Bay will not be forgotten by former players, coaches, and the fans.

Bart Starr's resume is rivaled by few in NFL history. He played in 10 postseason games and won 9 of them. He led the Packers to victory in Super Bowls I and II and won the MVP award in both games. He was the MVP of the league in 1966 and was named to the NFL All-Decade Team of the 1960s. The Packers retired his number 15 and Starr has been inducted into the Packers and Pro Football Hall of Fame.

After his playing days, Starr would become the head coach of the Packers. He could not repeat the success he had on the field from the 1960s teams. His coaching years do not take away from his legacy as one of the all-time great Packers. Starr was inducted into the Pro Football Hall of Fame in 1977.

One of Starr's last visits to Lambeau field was on a cold November night in 2015. Starr and his wife attended a ceremony in which the Packers retired Brett Favre's jersey number. Starr was the perfect personification of what it meant to be a Packer. His most heroic moment came in the 1967 NFL Championship Game. The Ice Bowl came down to a third and goal in Lambeau Field's south endzone against the Dallas Cowboys. Starr came to the sidelines and bravely told Vince Lombardi that he can sneak it in for a game-winning touchdown. Lombardi then replied, "Run it, and let's get the hell out of here." Starr ran a quarterback sneak for the game-winner and the Packers were off to Super Bowl II. Without Starr, Green Bay would not have won a second straight Super Bowl. His leadership in big game moments will live with Packers fans for a lifetime.

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Starr leaves behind his wife Cherry, his son, and three granddaughters. Packers fans will have a tight grip on the memories Bart Starr and the 60s teams created. Starr left behind a template for being a Green Bay Packer. He also left a template for being a good man and a gentleman of the game of football. He was a competitor and a leader. Packer nation mourns for the loss of one of the finest human beings the game has seen.

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